Collarspace

Mature, experienced sensual single Dominant who understands the cravings of a submissive. I am non-judgemental, revel in a strong woman who knows full well what she is giving when she turns over her power, and does it from a place of strength.

I am not interested in submissives who only want it as role play, but rather because they know it is an essential part of who they are. Role play is fine and I dont judge that, however it is not what I am looking for. I seek the kind of submissive who relishes their place and lives to serve. I expect a submissive to have a light on in their spirit and mind, who have their own opinions, know their strengths, and turn their power over because that is who they are and they crave a safe haven in which to relinquish it.

I love taking charge and using a girl as I choose. I have an easy going gentle nature, which is often confused with weakness. It belies an iron will, hence the name velvethammer. If you feel you have the strength and are up to the challenge, contact me.

I treat others with humanity and dignity, even while I am giving them what they crave. I am hetero, but not homophobic and take play where it may go, especially when using a couple.