Intelligent attractive dominant man looking for a compatible submissive woman for long term D/s relationship. I feel that I was born this way, I never gave any thought to it ... It just seems natural that my partner, my lover, should follow my lead ... why would she not?  When I was very young I had difficulty expressing my desires because I believed they would be misunderstood. I wanted to tie her up in a way that exposed all her sweet parts for my use ... to spank & torment all those sweet little places, surely there must be something wrong with me. But as I matured I was able to share my desires and found that she (I use "she" to represent the fairer sex, not any one person)  was willing to comply with my wishes ... and not only did she comply, she got pleasure from doing so ... Hallelujah! I have learned much since then. Totally open &honest communication is one of the things that draws me to a D/s relationship, and I am a very good communicator. I am not a sadist, but there are things I enjoy that will cause you some physical pain ... I may hurt you but not harm you. I am healthy & fit, emotionally available and financially stable.  I miss all the things that a woman brings into my world. Please feel free to ask me anything that you would like to know, I am an open book for you.