It seems that my profile is best viewed in the View Full Profile at.

Im happy to share pictures of myself with anyone who also has pictures of themselves to share, if we talk and actually become friendly )

With all of the above said, Ive been long overdue for some profile edits.



The TLDR part**(actually, Ive made it shorter, and you SHOULD read it)**

Ive been on this site (and others) and around the scene for a long time now. Im originally from NY, and saw that scene grow a bit before moving to AZ. Ive been in AZ for a few years now, and have definitely seen the scene here grow and change. During that time, Ive learned a lot about myself, and a lot about other people. I know what Im looking for, and I know what Im not looking for - Im not for everyone, and not everyone is for me. I know what Im good at, and I know what I want to learn more about. Wanting to learn and improve is a permanent state of mind for me.

Im into many, many different things, some of which are listed when you click the Interests button. Its come up in conversation before that I have many fetishes, some of which are considered extreme - Im not an extremist for anything, really, and very few of my fetishes are things I actually require to be happy. Im pretty open-minded with what I AM looking for, but I can definitely define what Im NOT looking for. Whatever the activity though, I love for there to be PASSION. Put your all into it, and it just becomes so much better...

I sometimes come across as a bit of a softie, but thats just because Im polite. If I were to start talking to you in the real world, you would expect me to be nice and friendly there, right? This doesnt mean you can walk all over me ... try it and see what happens, I dare you -P



Something I read that describes me pretty well

I enjoy controlling women in certain contexts, but knocking them around the room isnt control. Thats loss of control. It would be embarrassing to be so inept. Women should be made to want to be controlled.



Communication

Im a fan of excellent communication. Its so important to me that I decided to give it its own heading on my profile. If you cant communicate your desires and (especially) limits, were probably not going to get along very well. I respect ALL limits, but you have to be able to communicate them to me. Communicating things ahead of time eliminates problems later. As for my side of communication, Im pretty open - just ask! I have no reason to lie to anyone I talk to on here. Mutual respect is paramount.



What Im Looking y Ideal Person

For friendship, Im open to everybody!!

For more than friendship Im looking for a cis-female as a play partner, or possibly for a relationship. I would definitely like to find a girl thats open-minded, kinky, and eager to explore.

For play, Im adaptable to every submissives skill and experience. If you want no nonsense, harsh treatment, I can do that. If youre a beginner and need some care and caution, Im fine with that too.

Yes, I do enjoy rough and forceful playplay rape, however that is definitely not all I am into, and Im very cautious before I would be willing to enter this kind of thing. It also takes a special dynamic, and, see above, communication!!

Id also enjoy having a pet. Someone to love and cherish and cuddle with, but to discipline if theyve been bad...



Some Vanilla Stuff

I like getting to know people in a vanilla context, too, and Im always open to friendships. I enjoy hiking, if the company is good, and biking, either solo or with people. I like board games, video games, card games, etc. Playing pool probably falls under games, but I definitely enjoy that! Movies and TV are always nice.



Great Quotes

Everyone has insecurities, even Dommes. If they tell you they dont, theyre either lying, and so insecure that they cant even discuss it ... or theyre a sociopath. --Me

You know the saying It is better to be pissed off than pissed on? I have a feeling it doesnt always hold true in this lifestyle... --Me (14May2013)

Just like you shouldnt go grocery shopping when youre hungry, you probably shouldnt message girls on FetLife when youre horny. --Me (7May2014)

Necrophilia is a hard limit, even if Im the corpse! --Me (7May2014)

If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? --Chinese proverb

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you dont trust enough. --Unknown

The attraction to redheads is a lot like being addicted to drugs. --Unknown

You may be rightI may be crazyBut it just may be a lunatic youre looking for--Billy Joel





I am drug free, recently STD tested with negative results, and you should be too. Im in fairly good shape, and a nonsmoker.