Collarspace

Im a pretty well adjusted guy, normally laid back, and low pressure. I can be intense when the situation calls for it, but that is not my normal setting. I am mainly on the dominant side, but like most people, it varies by situation. I enjoy conversations and interaction with people of all orientations and dominance levels.

I dont live in Chicago, but I will be staying in the city for a few months. I am looking for friends local to the area. If there is chemistry, and something more develops, that would be great. If not, an evening of conversation and interaction would be great as well.

On the kinky side, I have no desire to cause pain without reason. However, when punishment is required, I am willing to deliver whatever discipline is needed. However, punishing you will probably hurt me more than it hurts... who are we kidding - it will hurt you a heck of a lot more than it hurts me, and I will enjoy every minute of it. I will also enjoy humiliating and degrading you, but only when you deserve the punishment.

I prefer an intellectual connection first. Turning a dumb blonde into a bimbo is not much of a challenge. Making an intelligent woman channel her abilities into looking and acting like a bimbo is much more satisfying. Plus, the smart creative ones are easier to train, and way more fun to play with!