Collarspace

Ive always been a strict believer that real doms should be as sensitive as they are strong, and as merciful as they are resilient. They should be devoted to their subs emotionally, spiritually, sexually, and in ironic fashion, serve them well.

While I cant speak for other doms, I can confidently say that this describes me well, or at least what I aspire to be at all times. The same selflessness makes me an instigator whos eager to provide the attention and control his sub needs. It really reflects a wish on my part for a monogamous relationship of mutual respect, consistent communication, and strong loyalty.

Id be lying if I said I want to own my sub only in the bedroom I am eager to explore the other aspects of this kind of relationship. But it must come with the same equality, consent, and understanding of any ideal vanilla relationship. So when I describe myself as dominant, I want it understood in context.

Now with all that being said, dont think for a second that Ill hesitate to own, dominate, control, and punish you as much as I see fit. Dont mistake my humble and gerenous nature to mean I will ever let you forget whos in charge.

In my vanilla life I own a business and live a stable, happy life. I am a naturally positive, patient, and joyous person striving to strike that perfect balance of gentleness and ferocious passion that suits the needs of my sub and I both.