Collarspace

I am naturally dominant, have been my whole life, sports, University, business. Divorced many years, two adult sons with whom I remain close. Got into BDSM about 15 years ago from the swinging world. Did my skills training back then with the Society of Janus and SM Odyssey in the USA, know what I am doing. I have had several live in subs then went off world traveling. Fortunate enough to be able to keep a girl full time. Am even tempered, bright, and like to get out and do things. I appreciate my woman and know this has to be a win win for both. I lead, she follows, it is natural..

Simply put I like to lead and motivate a woman. I think a female that can take discipline into their souls is perfection itself, the discipline of adaptation, gaining a greater sense of belonging, change that leads to rebirth or is it finding ones proper place in life? In their submissive nature they crave to please and be used but also valued. For them serving is just part of their character. Pains and pleasures are part of that.

I am a responsible owner use you often and happily.

A submissive needs to experience a structured life.

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Very real and experienced, strict, fair man, submission is not about fairness but the sub agrees to this inherent unfairness because it is her nature and trusts he will not do her harm and he shouldnt.

I do not list fetishes as they put labels on you and say I do this or I do not do this. I seek the woman that wishes to do what her man desires whatever that may be (apart from agreed upon limits). Details can be discussed.

I will say I value most highly obedience and I require your sexual energy, your obedience your pain your orgasms, your time and commitment.

Your mind is where it all begins, total control means molding your mind with your body. I use different methods to make you do what I want.

Be prepared to verify, I can.