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***Thank you for considering contacting me. I am not seeking or even considering a new partner at this time.***

I am a BBW. If that isnt your thing, continue on. I use marijuana edibles responsibly, I dont smoke and rarely drink. I dont do other drugs. If youre respectful of my choices with these topics, no judgement toward you, and it doesnt bother me if you drink or smoke. If you are into harder drugs, peace, but its not for me.

I am looking for friendship, perhaps a safe play partner which might develop into more. At the moment, Im really only interested in Dominant Sadistic Men(or Switch if he wants to mostly top).

With regards to BDSM, I am a pain bottom but I need a top who needs to inflict it as much as I need to experience it. I have experienced hard play involving paddles, leather strap, leather flog, leather whip, fiberglass cane, chain flog, needle play, impact play (fists and feet), pressure points, and fisting. I am not stoic, and if you work up slowly i can take a lot, but it takes surprisingly little to achieve tears. When it hurts, I cry and sob and beg. I WANT to be taken to the point that my mind stops its usual chatter and worry, and I am driven from my mind by the overload, and then guided back to myself with gentle words and caress afterward.

These are potentially dangerous activities and so I insist upon getting to know you online first, and then in person for some time before we play. I would like to talk with er playmates. And I insist youknow what youre about before I will consider this level of play. I insist you be willing to go above and beyond on terms of aftercare, especially after a particularly harsh scene. I pledge to go above and beyond in terms of endurance.

The one thing that really truly DOES it for me, that really makes it an enjoyable experience for me, is to come to realize during said activity that whatever it is Im doing or having done to me is arousing or empowering to the TopDom. Even if the activity itself holds no interest for me, it makes all the difference if it is intense for my TopDom.

Please keep in mind, I have a life, a great job, pets and roommates who requires a great deal of my time, attention, and consideration, etc. That said, I am willing to follow instructions and do tasks so long as it doesnt interfere with me living my life in general and DOES something for me.

And my boring vanilla interests )

I work full time. Ive fallen off the exercise bandwagon but Im trying to get back on it. I love hiking but rarely get the opportunity to go, and otherwise just make plans as they come in, get caught up on chores, etc.

I love gardening and growing things and am working on a food garden which I hope to gradually develop into an urban farm.

I enjoy books of all sorts, particularly fantasy, and I always try to find the audio version, since I have little time to actually sit down and read.I love taking solo car trips because Ill immerse myself in an audio book on the way, but I also like going on road trips with others.Any Institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects--You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any or forum both current and future. IF you have or do, it will be considerd a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other site members post a similar notice.