8/23/2017 9:01:01 PM: I've noticed that it sometimes looks like I have new mail, but when I look, nothing is there.  This suggests to me that messages are being lost by the site.  That's why I tend to try to get people on Skype or other IM's.  I wont push, but if it seems like I vanished, it's probably not due to lack of interest, it's probably because the site ate our messages.

2/20/2008 8:16:18 PM: Well, I have been here long enough to see that there are a lot of interesting things on the boards, and also that a lot of people use this place more for information exchange rather than to seek a partner (or partners)   I also realized the very brief blurb on my profile is not going to attract the sort of sub/slave that I want, but am not sure what to add.