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Verijaa
| Pan Female, 59, Spokane, Washington
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Hello, I am Ms. V.
I am here to find a slave. To me that means a lifetime relationship commitment, one we can grow old with, have fun with, and do our way (meaning My way, of course!) One that includes a lot of kink along with the other adventures of life.
I am a well-educated professional, a bohemian outlaw, a maker, and an adventurer. I am also an older woman who tends to stay within a decade of my own age, at most, for partners. I like sharing some common history with my partner and being in the same stage of our lives. And yes, my slave is my partner, the other face of my coin.
I am interested in scifi and fantasy, historical fiction, and dabble in many other genres. I do a wide variety of crafting and am usually making several different things, from wire weaving and metal engraving to polymer clay and leather braiding. I love dragons. I have a dog and a cat. This will be my last cat, but I will always have a dog. I like spicy food. I love Thai curry, but not Indian so much. I like purple. I listen to heavy metal, and like Bach and Schubert, and Buddy Guy. I am a freestyle Wiccan. I am a liberal-leaning independent moderate with a gun.
I am very direct, blunt, and practical. I try to see both sides of things, and predict problems so they can be solved in advance rather than wait for things to go wrong. Sometimes that comes across as negative. I am working on that, but be prepared to deal with it. I am really not a negative person, I am very laid back, sometimes grumpy but almost never angry, and generally pretty easy going. Just do it my way and everything works out fine!
I am a sadist. Well, sadomasochist, to be correct, but my sadism is very much ascendant. I will hurt you, and smile while I do it, and enjoy the hell out of it. But thats about play, not punishment. I do not mix the two up, and expect to punish rarely, if ever. I am not interested in domestic discipline. For that matter, I am not into any particular fetish, I am a broad-spectrum kinkster. I would prefer my slave to be adventurous like that, too. A person who sticks on one primary fetish would not be a good match for me.
If you think you would like to serve an aging bohemian adventurer, drop me a line. If you do, here are some pointers:
Do not call me Mistress, Goddess, Miss, or any other title. If you need to use Maam to feel polite, thats fine, but otherwise I am Ms. V. Or just V, if you are writing for some other purpose.
Write a letter that shows me that you are literate and know how to write a letter. Yes, thats important to me. Much of my life is spent around the written word, in one way or another. I want a slave who can share those aspects of my life with me.
Write like one human writing to another. A sub male and slave are of equal human value to anybody on the planet, and whoever you are, you are not Mine, and I have not consented to behaving like your dominant, so do not behave like my sub. Be a person first.
Write as though you are interested in me as a person, and write as an interesting person yourself, and tell me where our interests intersect.
That means do NOT write to ask permission to write. That is incredibly annoying. Do not waste my time. Do not send me one line small talk emails. I am not looking for a pen-pal, and make a very bad one myself.
Do not ask me for cyber, or long distance. I am not moving anybody to me until I have gotten to know them in person, so if you cannot travel often enough to my location in a reasonable amount of time to really get to know each other, do not expect a long distance relationship. And if you are not a permanent US resident, it is not happening. I am not into years of red tape with immigration. No.
I am not interested in sissy maids, roleplay, chastity, cuckolding, female supremacy, goddess-worship, or any fetish that is a consuming interest to the exclusion of other things. No obsessions, no addictions, no drama.
If your profile picture is your dick or your butt, I will hide your profile. I like those parts on a person I like for other reasons, but they do not make a good introduction, and somebody who thinks they do is not compatible with me. If your profile picture is butt plugs or a chastity cage, why? Do you think we do not know what they look like? If your biggest interest is in what toys can be used on you, I will not be your fetish provider.
**The pictures I have posted here are my own photography (except the ones of me, of course), the floggers and cats are things I made myself, the dungeon is my own, the bondage was done by me.
**The Harley is not mine but was offered for a photo-shoot. The slave on it is neither me nor mine. The bondage and photography ARE mine.
**Please do not use any photography or writing from my profile without specific permission from me.
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3/20/2024 5:45:10 PM: If your profile pic is your crotch or your butt, from any angle, clothed or not, lingerie or not, chastity or not, I will 'Hide' your profile from view. I do not want to be introduced to a crotch or a butt.
If your profile pic is a bathroom mirror nude body shot, I likely will not look further. Why would I want to get to know somebody with so little sense of aesthetics, so little willingness to put in a bit of effort, so little imagination?
A profile avatar is your introduction, your first hand-shake, not a place to bare your all. Even on a kink site, we are people first. Kinky does not mean a total lack of class or style or courtesy.
A profile avatar does not have to be a face pic, it doesn't even have to be you, it just has to show something interesting about you. A hobby, a pet, a silhouette of you against a sunset, a photo you took and love. If your body doesn't belong in a fashion magazine, don't expect it to be interesting to potential partners as a first introduction. Bodies become much more attractive for many women when we get to know the person first. We are looking for more than bodies. Show us a WHOLE PERSON.
That goes for the body of the profile, too. Show us a whole person, not another horny porn-fed online wannabe without a clue. Show you know what you are talking about outside of porn, which is NOT educational. Be a real, interesting, knowledgable person.
Or do please write to somebody else.
2/26/2023 7:47:41 PM: It's baffling why some guys start an email by saying they've read a profile, and immediately make it obvious that they haven't. Or that they have little or no reading comprehension. Do you think we're so stupid we won't notice? You know everybody can tell who has looked at their full profile, right? You can't read all of mine without looking at the full profile, so I KNOW IF YOU HAVEN'T. Not to mention there are things in there placed there specifically to see if it's been read.Do you think there's nothing in there you might need to know? Do you think a dominant just wrote it for fun and it doesn't mean anything? Do you think 'getting to know a dominant' might include reading what she writes? Do you think lying about it will make a good impression?If you want to get to know me and maybe serve me some day, the first step is to PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT I SAY. Starting with the profile. The second step is to NEVER LIE. I mean, seriously, this is not rocket science, guys. Anybody past ten years old should be able to figure this stuff out.
2/26/2023 7:45:49 PM: Moving back to Spokane! I will be there the beginning of May, and I'm so looking forward to it! I want to walk Centennial Trail with my dog, maybe catch a concert at Riverfront Park or a play at one of the community theaters. Two more weeks!
2/26/2023 7:45:32 PM: If you are looking for an FLR, expecting strict housekeeping type rules and discipline spankings, please move on. I expect an adult to manage his own chores, and spankings are boring and hurt my hands. I will be in charge, but I won't be constantly inspecting and enforcing. My sadistic play is PLAY, because we both enjoy it. Not the negativity of a punishment context. If you are not a masochist, move along.
4/2/2022 11:22:55 AM: Guys, please do some non-porn research into your own kinks. It is bizarre that many of you manage to insult the very people you are looking for, by calling them by a porn term they find degrading out in the real world. You expect women to want what women want in porn, even though porn is written for men, and those women are paid actresses. You would not treat the women you know in your real life the way women are treated in porn, but for some reason you think women in KINKY porn are different. Nope.
If you want anything approaching reality, LEARN about reality first. From non-porn sources. And think about it with your pants up. D/s is NOT all about your dick, or the lack of it, or anything else regarding it. Put it away and think about people, not body parts.
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