Hi there. Im not sure how to start this but here goes.

I identify as transgender. Around 12 years ago I transitioned into living as a woman full time. However as time wore on I gradually reverted to being more male in my appearance. Part of that is not wanting to face the constant harassment and embarrassment of not quite passing in public. My name is feminine sounding and I wont change that as Im proud of my name and what it stands for in my history.

I have spent some time with men sexually but it really isnt my preference. It would take quite a bit of convincing to be in a long term relationship with a male. I would love to find someone that is beautiful, inside and out, that has a firm hand to guide me and keep me on the path of servitude.

Sometimes it seems that being submissive equates being stupid. I am not ignorant and wont be treated as a thing. I want to find someone that captures my whole essence and draws it out of me. I am an explorer at heart and want to find someone to explore with. I will wholeheartedly give that person my love, trust and servitude.

Im romantic enough to believe that there may only be a single person out there that is willing and able to lovingly draw me into a web of submission to you.

Im currently in a relationship with someone of 11 years. She is a monster and am looking for a way to leave. One of the things that is complicating this extrication is that we have a dog. I love our dog and she is the highlight of my existence currently. Whenever there is an argument our dog is used as a weapon against me. I loath being in this position but my heart is tied to my puppy and if I move she will have to go with me.

I dont have a ton of experience in the world of BDSM but with the right person am looking forward to exploring it together.

Also I am liberal politically. If you are a conservative political person we probably will not get along very well.

I am an atheist. If you are religious and worship some sort of sky god then Im not interested.

Loves
Photography
Cooking (Im an excellent cook and have cooked professionally)
Food Exploration (love trying new foods and restaurants)
Sushi
Indian Food
Korean Food
Belgian Waffles ( make some of the best Belgian Waffles )
Music (I love many different genres of music but sometimes a particular song will grab me that I wasnt expecting.)
Rock
Heavy Metal
EDM
Oldies
Pop Music
Alternative Music
Atheism
Art ( in particular sculpture )
Woodworking
Woodturning
Rock Climbing (Both Indoor and Outdoor)
Swimming
Hiking
Walking
Inline Skating
Biking
Love being fit in general
Traveling
Reading
Podcasts
Learning
Watching Movies
Being warm
Wool Socks
Silky fabric
Massages ( Both giving and receiving )
Being warm and snuggling
Diapers
Ass Play
Nipple play
Strap On play
Enemas
Role Playing
Vibrators
king
Public displays of affection (Holding hands, Kissing)
Showering together
Cross-dressing
Chastity
Hypno (Love the idea but have never been hypnotized as far as Im aware)
Panties
Beautiful fingernails and toenails
Smiles