**NO Couples, Domme Women, or MEN OVER 55****

**KiK available, ASK nicely, I can refuse.**

**Yes to friends with submissive females older than 25**

**Must Know About Me**

**I AM A FASHION PHOTOGRAPHER AND AM ALWAYS ONLINE BUT NOT ALWAYS IN THIS PROGRAM, WHILE I AM SHOOTING OR EDITING, BE PATIENT WHILE AWAITING REPLIES, I DO WORK, I WILL GET BACK TO YOU, WHEN I AM ABLE TO**

~Updated January 2022~ (More ACTIVE on the F site, same minus numbers)

ACTIVE - Seeking a Daddy/Dominant and/or steady, Play Partners who are local or will travel to me for visits. I cannot host, but tons of hotels nearby

 *I am bipolar and borderline personality disorder and am ON medication, my condition is treated and sustained and manageable, but please know I am prone to depression and mood swings, I get sad and I do rapid cycle, so before you go off on me, check to see if I'm having an off day, and try back at a later time.*

~ RELATIONSHIP INFO ~

July 2021 - I have ventured somewhat into my local community and was welcomed with somewhat open arms, found a few new friends, even played and tried some new things. So, I have figured out somethings about me. While I may be poly with a vanilla hubby, in the kink world I need to be JUST ONE sub/babygirl to JUST ONE Dominant/Daddy, I cannot be one  a harem. If im choosing YOU, I NEED to be YOUR chosen one as well. Until that happens, or even after, I am accepting play partner/s. I would like him/them to be steady and would prefer not pick up ones. I like the bond having steady ones brings as you both get to know each other, their likes, and how to read each other. If any of this interests you, please reach out. I swear, I wont bite unless you ask. I may scratch tho, this kitten has claws.

 - January 2021 - We are finally setlting into our new home here in Oklahoma, I am loving our town and our neighborhood, as much as i get to see of it, as i am currently without transportation most days, but can work out if i need to keep my car. i am extremely socially anxious and awkward and tend to do best in EXTREMELY small groups, one on one or if i already know someone beforehand and am attending with them, so for now, full scale large events are a no go. I am looking to find a seperate poly partner or myself, my husband is conducting his own search on his own time. We are separate entities in the dating forum, we do not poly a a couple. Interested, send me a message, let's talk

- New April 2019 (finally making public, have been for about a few years now) - I practice ethical non-monogamy, in which my relationships could be described as parallel or a pivot (V). In a "V", two of the three possible pairs have substantially stronger bonds than the third pair. The emotional and sexual aspects of relationship may differ in this regard, so it's possible for example to describe a relationship as a triangle emotionally but a V sexually. The connecting member of a V relationship is sometimes referred to as a "hinge" or "pivot", and the partners thereby indirectly connected may be referred to as the "arms". Currently am seeking additional partner/s to join my life.

- Looking for a fun energetic D/Top type, for play and possibly more if all works out. I obviously hope for more ie: a Daddy/babygirl type relationship, a D/s type as well as all of these sides make up who i am. Also seeking submissive FEMALE friends/girlfriends/partners to help enjoy the life with and just have fun.

Seeking something real and different. Enchant me.

- I am hoping to find MORE and NEW friends on my journey into this lifestyle, to guide me, teach me and usher me to new and interesting discoveries. I thrive on new experiences with trusted like minded souls and cannot wait to meet you. Please, come say hello!

 **PLEASE Send me a message FIRST, not just a cold friend request, NO MESSAGE, I will NOT accept. I love new friends. If you have ever seen me engaging in behaviors or with people that you have experienced to be unsafe or toxic, please let me know. I may ask for/require details and proof, but my private conversations are private. If I have done something to offend or make you feel unsafe, again, please tell me. I cannot grow without knowledge and education**

-- ESSENTIAL PROFILE INFO --

~please, get to know me, and see the girl inside, take the risk and actually talk to me, see the warm heart and the girl who is just trying to find her place, and to be accepted. If you are willing to try with me, even as a friend, potential play partner or more, please send me a message, let's take that first step.~

Okay, here this now, I am a respectful and playful brat, a baby-girl, a kitten, a sweetheart and a submissive, I fit into all of this and none of these. I am ME!!

~ I have awakened a highly masochistic streak in me, I am very much liking what I'm getting into so far and an intrigued to explore this more, with the right person, someone extremely trusted and well vetted. I am also ever evolving and changing, so even if its on my do not like list, I may be willing to explore.

-- Please No One Line Emails, If you cannot be intelligent enough to compose a few paragraphs to stimulate my mind, than what makes you think you can stimulate my mind and body.--

So many tell me that I am too mouthy or too un-submissive like. I am sorry but this is just me and who I am . You may either take me or leave me. Some like me this way and will be Dominant enough to tame the fires that burn deep within my redheaded soul.

I really am a true heart submissive/Little Girl, and my desires run deep, to serve and to one day with the right Dominant/Daddy fall upon my knees in His presence. When the right One comes along to claim, and control me, but also love me.. spoil me, and ever all guide and protect me.

I know what it means to be owned, to give up control. I know the differences between vanilla love and submission and the love that comes from that.  To be owned by the one who will be the One by my choice and my heart's yearning to belong to Him.

Just because you claim to be a Dominant, or a Daddy does NOT mean I will immediately fall to my knees begging you and obeying you. You will be given the respect you deserve as always but I will not be that easily swayed. Sir/Daddy will only be given to the one who will claim my heart.

If you are not the right fit, then please I implore you, back away gracefully, and in true Dominant fashion. If you say you are a Dominant than be one. Be strong and if I am not suited to you or we are not compatible, please understand with an open mind and an open heart.