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Hi... Im a 60 yo educated WM with a dry but dark sense of humor 63 195, HWP, professional, pierced nipples. College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bobs Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important!

My lifekink partner of 30 years recently passed away. While I might consider something of a more LTR, I am not just going to rush into that at present...

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, spanking, breast and nipple play, ballgags, hoods, needlespiercing, tight restraints, watching, voyeurism, large s and. . .? I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience!

This can also be a LT friendship as I am also looking to connect with other kinksters in public, maybe heading out for an occasional cocktail, karaoke, strip club, dark venue... you get the picture!

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE black chicks, tats, piercings, and am also open to switching to submit to others at times as well.

Limits will be respected but tested. I can host as I own my own house but also receptive to meeting at a neutral location first. Also receptive to sexting or cyberplay. Prefer general Milwaukee area.