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katesbidding
Hetero Female, 46, Milwaukee, Oregon 
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katesbidding

I am not interested in younger men for the most part. There can be exceptions to the rule, of course, but I find it difficult to picture being dominated by someone too much younger than myself.

I prefer vaginal sex (and lots of it) over being eaten out. I love giving massages while watching movies, though I don't usually sit still long enough for a whole movie; perhaps half. I'm stimulated by audio cues more than anything else, such as purposeful hmm's and other sounds of approval. Whether my eyes are open or closed, I'm always listening for those sounds to tell me things are going well or not going well.

Once trust is established with a play partner (or relationship partner), I believe I slip into sub-space pretty easily and respond best to gentle commands and statements of desire (verbal or non-verbal). You want something? You only need to move my hand somewhere, give me a look, or tell me what you want and it will probably happen. You want the same repeated result? Train me for your wishes and I will learn it.

I don't respond to yelling or humiliation in a positive manner; it will just pop me right out of sub-space and irritate me. If it's something you enjoy, you'd have to put in the time to train me on it. Otherwise my default instincts will kick in. I do not fool around with married or otherwise "in a relationship" men that are not open with their partners about what they're doing. If you want to seek other comforts outside your relationship I am fine with it as long as all parties agree. If you want some cheating, silent, secret, tryst? That is not going to be me.

I do not have much experience with bondage or pain play but both are of interest to me. I love breath play as long as it is done safely. It probably won't be something for an early relationship but... for later... I love being fucked while my carotid is restricted or my breath is lovingly being sucked from my mouth during kisses. It is especially my favorite when it is done with subtlety so that I don't realize it's happening and I slip further and further away into bliss. The orgasms are great and you will have trouble staying inside me sometimes as my muscles push you out. It is a fun game to play -- will I push you out or will you stand your ground and keep fucking me through the orgasms. Very fun game, truly. It leads to laughter afterwards, stories of the fun moments, and creation of happy memories.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Kate

4/21/2018 2:37:58 PM: The slave that came to visit Me for 5 days did not turn out at all as I expected. He arrived at the very end of the day instead of in the afternoon, though i did not begrudge him this since it was due to traffic outside his control. However, it meant I had much less time with him upon his arrival than I anticipated since he arrived so late in the evening. This slave wanted dual-control between My partner and I which we agreed to in this case.He was asked what his hard limits were at the door prior to entering My house. He stated his hard limits were no anal sex and no heavy anal play. I asked if he was willing to have sex with Me then, since he seemed more opposed to My partner's involvement sexually and he did not state it was a limit for him. He had an erection while standing in My doorway as he was stripped of his clothes, pocket items, and shoes one by one and put in a collar and handcuffs before allowed entry into My house. My partner and I locked him down in the basement for 15 minutes or so while we decided what we wanted to do with him. Given the state of his cock in erection, we decided upon sexual activity with Me. The slave had agreed to filming as long as his face was left out. We had him put on a mask that covered his face and ordered him to fuck Me while being filmed for our pleasure. He fucked Me decently for a while but it was clear he was tired from his long journey so we called things off early. It was clear to Me he needed rest after his long day of travel. I gave him permission to sleep on the cot for the night instead of the floor since I wanted him better rested for improved performance and service the next day. I went to bed and My partner finished up with him for the night before leaving him in the basement to rest.The next day My partner spent some time with him in the morning having him shower and then clean the bathroom he had used. The slave was then restrained down in the basement while My partner left to run an errand for Me and I was at work. I came home for lunch and had the slave rub My feet while I took a smoke break before heading back to work. Then I chained the slave back downstairs to await My partner's return. While at work, My partner texted Me to tell Me the slave requested release and was not mentally well. It turned out the slave has a long history of alcohol abuse and had fallen off the wagon in recent times and was now struggling with not drinking while away from home. Since he requested release, and My partner and I had not come to a no release agreement with this slave, he was let go. I was very disappointed he requested to leave when he had barely begun his service to us and he was not mistreated in any way (though we do like to mistreat people that enjoy that). I texted the slave to find out where he was staying and went to retrieve him. He had drank 8 bottles of a 12 pack of beer by the time I got there and was begging Me to please let him have another drink as I made him open the beers to give to Me to pour down the sink in front of him. I told him My hard limit was no permanent damage to My property or a slave under My control. Allowing someone with a problem with alcohol access to alcohol is something I consider permanent damage. The slave and I had a long talk about his past abuses, his relationship, his issues, his mental instability currently, his struggles, etc. I drove him to a weed shop to get some marijuana (since I have a medical card it's cheaper) to mitigate his alcohol cravings instead as he said this was helpful for him. I also bought him a quick something to eat at Jack in the Box since he hadn't eaten anything but a few peanuts all day, despite that I had ordered him to make a peanut butter and jam sandwich for breakfast earlier that morning. We went back to the hotel room and watched a movie while he massaged Me. I took off My shirt and bra and he got hard again while massaging My shoulders and breasts. Seeing he was erect made Me demand sex of him. I had brought condoms with Me in case of such an event. He said no he couldn't have sex with Me but then disrobed without hesitation and laid down for Me to mount him and have him enter Me. I fucked him until I came a few times and then told him he was to fuck Me now. I re-positioned Myself on the edge of the bed and had him fuck Me. I came and made a huge puddle several times on the end of the bed and he would pull out to stop as though I were done and I would tell him to keep going. Eventually, he confessed he could not cum as much as he wanted to, likely due to his relationship back home. This confused Me since he did not say sex with Me, nor cuming with Me was a hard limit when we met but I allowed him to cease. He showered quickly and I got dressed. I told him to come back after he checked out the next morning and he agreed (he had already paid for the hotel room or I would have brought him back right then). The next morning he did not show up, but instead, send Me a text that he went to the coast but that he was willing to come back as long as there was no more sexual relations. At this point, I was beyond frustrated because he should have communicated his hard limits from the beginning and been honest with himself and with My partner and I about what he could or could not do. My partner and I have MANY uses for a slave without sex or sexual activities of any kind; it would have been nothing to us to leave those elements out had he been up front about it in the beginning. My partner and I discussed whether to have him come back and decided he was too mentally unstable at this point to allow him to return. Plus, him leaving took the legitimacy out of what we were doing and made it feel like a show for his amusement instead of him serving us and it being our lifestyle preference. If he gets his mental state and his honest communication issues fixed in the future, I would consider giving him a second chance should he arrange a visit again. But next time, there won't be any early releasing. I still long to find a 24/7 live in slave that I can train and use with permanency. It's a lot of work to train someone so when they only stay a day or a week it's training intensive for Me and less pleasure because I have to show the slave where things are located (like cleaning supplies, trash can, food, dishes), and how I like things done which takes involvement and time from Me. With a live-in slave I would spend that same time training them up front, but they wouldn't be leaving so the training would ease, My work level would decrease as they become efficient at pleasing Me, and I would get to spend more time doing things I want to do to My slave, using My slave, or whatever else I desire to do with My time that pleases Me. I talk to so many people on Collar Space who claim this is the life they want but getting someone here to stay has been quite challenging. It is a good thing I am a determined woman who does not give up easily. I believe the right slave is out there for Me, maybe I'm already talking to him right now, maybe it will be tomorrow, but it will happen.

4/15/2018 10:46:18 AM: I had My first successful visit from a slave yesterday! He showed up at 10am at the designated location as ordered and My partner met him there and brought him back to our home after a brief screening and introduction. He stayed the whole day until around 8pm when I decided it was time for him to go. Because he was here for only the day, we had to pack a lot into one day. Highlights include:-- While we made our introductions, he performed semi-adequate foot massage on Me but had difficulty concentrating on rubbing My feet when speaking. This required reinforcement through stern speech and a hit on the arm by Me at first. My partner left us alone and did his own thing for the first while as we got acquainted. -- I trained him to say Yes, Mistress when responding to Me. I trained him that he was not to speak when I was speaking. -- I stripped him of all of his clothing and put him into a leather collar with rings on it that he brought for Me to use on him. I liked that collar, in particular, because the three large rings caused him to jingle as he went around the house so I could listen to his movements even when he was out of My sight. He had worn a pair of ladies panties which I was *very* pleased with. They were white and fit him very well and revealed his ass cheeks nicely. -- I assigned him with a cleaning duty first: emptying the spice rack shelves and cleaning the shelves, all of the jars and bottles, and the counter beneath it. He was allowed to keep his panties and collar on while cleaning but nothing else. When he was done cleaning he was told to return to a spot in the living room and sit in a comfortable position or kneel and wait for further instructions. -- I went outside for a few smokes and watched him periodically through the back patio window. I listened to the jingling telling Me he was still working. I occasionally went in the room and beat him with a paddle on his ass, back, shoulders, or arms as he worked and then left the room. When he completed the task, he returned to the spot as ordered. I came in and inspected the area he was assigned to clean and found it deficient. I ordered him back to the kitchen and showed him the dust and areas he missed and he was ordered to do it again with more care and attention to detail. Had he done it well on the first try, I was going to move on to something more fun; since he didn't do it well on the first try I decided he would do more cleaning afterwards. -- Next I decided he would clean the toaster and then clear all of the kitchen counter tops and clean them and replace the things in the order he got them when done. I gave him the additional bleach cleaning supply and washcloths and allowed him to wear gloves on his hands to protect the skin from the chemicals. Again, I left him to his own devices and kept an eye and ear on him occasionally checking to see him work. I saw that he went above-and-beyond the specific areas I asked him to clean by wiping down the igerator handles and a few other things in the kitchen, which pleased Me. -- He returned to his assigned spot when done. I told him to stand and retrieve two condoms, a pair of new gloves, and some lubricant from his bag. He had forgotten the lubricant in his car so I ordered him to get dressed and retrieve it and then return to his previous state and position. Once he retrieved all of the items I required, I led him upstairs to the play room. My partner had set up video cameras for the ass play that was about to ensue (brief at first, followed by much more later). The slave had given consent to being filmed except for his face which we respected. -- I had the slave lay down on the bed and beat him lightly with a few hard strokes of a paddle across his back, shoulders, and ass. I then had him position himself with his knees at the edge of the bed leaning forward for anal insertion of a small pink butt plug. The plug went in easily and I put his thong strap over it again to keep it in place. My plan was to have him on his hands and knees next cleaning the kitchen floor with the butt plug in place. My partner wanted to watch the slave eat My pussy so I undressed and positioned Myself in front of the slave while he did so. My partner gave him a pair of gloves so he could use his fingers in My pussy and pushed his face into My pussy and ordered him not to stop until I squirted and came all over the place. Whenever I was making orgasm noises My partner would say good job, I want to keep hearing those noises, and the slave kept going. I came many times, a few really good ones and lots of smaller ones. My partner got naked and came over to My head and I played with his cock in My hands and mouth while the slave worked on My pussy. I came and the slave ate My juices and seemed to enjoy it quite a bit. He stopped for some reason at one point and My partner pushed his face back into My pussy and said he wasn't told to stop and the slave went back to work. At some point, the pink butt plug fell out and we decided to take a break from that activity and a few more good orgasms from Me. I put on some clothes and went downstairs to get a larger black plug that the slave had brought with him. This one wasn't going to come out on its own. II had the slave re-position for the insertion of the plug, it took some time to insert it, as it should, and once it was in I put his thong strap over it and had him get up and follow Me downstairs for his next task assignment.-- I told him to remove the rugs and shake them outside, sweep the floor, and then clean the floor with the mop soap and a washcloth on his hands and knees while being filmed (from behind) by My partner and with the large, black butt plug still in his ass. My partner interacted with him occasionally, taking a spatula and egg beater and hitting him with them while he worked at one point. When the slave was done he went back to his assigned spot and waited as ordered to do. -- He had done a good job so My partner and I decided next to do a lot more anal play and filming of some cock and ball torture. I led the slave upstairs and positioned him on the bed again. I removed the large black butt plug and took some time to fist him anally with a glove. Then I inserted the top of a bowling pin into his ass for the camera. I played with the bowling pin in his ass and listened and watched for the slave's reactions. The slave mentioned he needed medication to get hard and didn't have any so he did not expect an erection to occur. This led My partner to want to torture him extra for not having brought the pills with him for his visit. Next, I inserted a large bumpy glass dildo and played with it in his ass until My partner and I decided to leave it in him all the way and start the cock and ball torture. My partner brought out large, sturdy clothespins and clipped them to his cock and balls everywhere. Then, he hung heavy locks from them to see if they would hold the weight or slip off. Some of them slipped off and it sounded like it hurt quite a bit but the slave remained where ordered. My partner took out a few mousetraps and put them on his ball sack as well. Pretty soon, there was a huge colorful array of items hanging from the slave's cock and balls and his sack was turning all sorts of shades of red and purple. It looked wonderfully painful. My partner took a toy and hit lightly against the items hanging from the slave's balls trying to get them to loosen, slip, and fall with a pinch. I hit the slave's cock and balls with my hands, especially his cock because it pleased Me. Some of them fell, some of them stayed. During this, I was rubbing the slaves back and bottom with My hands and occasionally hitting him with a paddle for some surprise. I had also loosened his collar one notch because it looked like he needed a little extra room for his neck, given the position and pain. Eventually, most of the items had fallen exce

4/3/2018 7:48:40 PM: I am very excited it seems a slave is coming to visit me for 5 days this month in Mid-April. The person has proved themselves by sending an item for Me to use on them (a steel posture collar)  prior to their arrival and showed Me their plane ticket. It will be a short, but enjoyable stay. This person is out of the Country and visits the States 2-3 times a year and hopes to find a regular dual-control situation to fulfill his inner need to serve and be useful each time he visits the area. My partner and I are very excited to find the first person to follow-through and show up! It is too bad he cannot stay and live the 24/7 lifestyle I desire but that search continues on. It is just hard to find people that want to walk-the-walk and show up more than talk-the-talk.Mistress Kate

3/25/2018 4:21:41 PM: My search for a future slave continues as I have yet to find one that turns out to be serious in their desire to relocate to Me. I have found a few short-term candidates that seem to be serious in their intent to visit Me to service Me and/or My partner while they are here. These short-term service visits will be fun if they come to fruition but I still have a strong desire for someone to service me 24/7 and relocate to Me here. There are a few people that seemed serious and then disappeared or can't relocate until far in the distant future which makes planning difficult. I've run into many people who claim serious intent and fail to follow through which is very frustrating since I am real and tire of making plans with people who do not show up when they say they will. It is a shame the fakes and flakes ruin it for the serious people out there searching for what they need. Mistress Kate

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