I am very new to this lifestyle and looking for a true dom or domme to learn how to be a true submissive. I am happily married but need to explore my sub side more and have it opened up. My husband tends to be dominant but only can do this with other women, not me. I am interested in everything about the submissive role and have read a lot on the subject but havent really explored this with a true dom. I have experimented with wannabe doms, but they were only trying to get laid and had no intentions of following the rules and doing proper training. I would like the true experience and to be a sub to the right situation and plan to follow through completely to a true dom or domme. I did try with a couple once but they were more into swinging which I have no problem with , but that wasnt what I wanted. My husband is very supportive and would even be willing to assist with the training or help the dom with my training. I would even love if he participated as often as possible.

One last thing I would like to add and is most important. Yes I want true training and will be loyal to my dom completely, but I do want to be long term, I want to be dated not just go straight to the bedroom. I would love there to be more wine and dine or taken out to different places just to get to know each other and connect. I want regular contact just like in a relationship. I would prefer to have a Sugar Daddy type dom preferably but not mandatory, just a wish list kind of situation. Sounds the most fun and exciting to me. Most importantly I want it to be fun, I want my husband to have some role in all of this and would be great if I had two men in my life for different reasons. xoxo.