2/23/2018 8:28:54 AM: I was asked recently what drew me to the lifestyle originally. What drew me to the lifestyle those years ago was more of a primal need for dominance and power exchange – a raw lust for control with a little sadism thrown in. But perspective shifts. I’m not exactly that same person. Those things are there under the surface waiting to come out but perhaps I got a little wiser? Now the biggest draw to the lifestyle is a purity and simplicity of the relationship and the trust it requires. With any relationship I pursue my end goal is always to be laid bare and have the girl I’m with be the same. I’m not looking for half measures. I want the simplicity of knowing a girl inside and out. I want to know what makes her tick. I want to be able to do what I want with a girl because I *know* she wants it. Safe words are great when you are first exploring but I want to reach a point where they aren’t needed. Where the trust and faith are the ultimate bonds – and where that trust is earned organically the old-fashioned way.