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Contrary to popular belief, I do not top from the bottom. I would much rather be known as selectively submissive.

My Best Friend and life-partner left this world August 2011.

After nearly 15 years my partner and Dominant has passed away. I have grieved for him and will always miss him.

I have now reached the point where I am ready to move on with the right dominant man who can be dominant without being domineering. Someone who understands that being submissive and being a masochist are not mutually inclusive. A secure man who wants the full relationship with that constant undercurrent of Ds flowing through our lives. A relationship should involve both people....While I enjoy giving pleasure...I do not find my pleasure in giving some yahoo a blow job.

I am also looking for a friend....someone who knows the words to the same songs I do. Someone who reads, someone who speaks well....someone who will hold me...and only that when I need to be held. Someone who knows the lindy! Someone who is financially secure, someone who does NOT live with his mother. Someone who does not need multiple submissives, as I failed sharing in kindergarten. Someone who can keep me in line....letting me get my toes to that line but never, ever allowing me over it.

I have a strong need to belong and to have someone belong to me and
I need quite a bit of attention. I think they call it chai maintenance.

Please do not contact me if you are married, have a vanilla girlfriendwife who just doesnt share your kinky tendencies, are unable to go to social gatherings, or BDSM parties.

Hugs are ALWAYS welcome.

Davi