Having been around kink for a long time, I am constantly hearing complaints on this site from submissives who are looking for a true dominant experience only to discover they are constantly contacted by either those males looking for a moment of control to satisfy their sexual gratification, or those too weak to offer anything more decent than a limp kink vanilla session.  It probably doesn't help that so many of the profiles are fake, and that the genuine younger girls on the site often care more for the content of a 'dominants' biceps than what he can actually do with a piece of rope, a blind fold and a firm hand.  

Perhaps I'm too old school for CS, remembering the days before tinder when bdsm was about the subtle mental connection between a submissive and dominant, and the interplay was understood by both to culminate in the subs ultimate sexual ecstasy, rather than just the 'dominants' need to 'get his rocks off'.  It was in the day when dominants' greatest desires were to fulfill the deepest desires of the submissive and through such transference and counter transference the submissives lays down her every barrier and gives herself wholly and completely to him.  It involves, skill, trust, connection; it is an art of language, hand control, and of course unbridled, erotic, masterful fucking.

Perhaps i'm on the wrong sites for such an ideal, but i still believe there are genuine submissives out there looking for genuine sessions and experiences.  If that's you then please please get in touch! i'm genuinely interested in working with submissives high on desire and low on experience who wish to be led, not used.