Collarspace

Deviant departing from usual or accepted standards, especially in social or sexual behaviour
Abuser a person who uses something to bad effect or for a bad purpose.
The best things happen just outside of your comfort zone.!

I am a very well educated, mannered and intelligent man..with a great sense of humour, very easy going, sociable, solvent... physically still very presentable and very young in attitude and behaviour, still fit and very active physically and mentally ...just someone enjoying life to the full.... well that is what the vanilla world sees of me.!
I am single..and open to an LTR should it happen that way...but open to one offs, regular meets etc
Willing to commute for someone exceptional.
I am not into BDSM because I am a misogynist or have issues with women..its exactly the opposite. I love them.
Like you... there is the other me..the real one.!
I am very tactile, sensual, sexual and hedonistic
I am a hard, demanding, kinky, perverted, cruel, creative, sadistic master looking for a partner(s) in crime who would like to enjoy all I have to offer
Dont waste my time if you arent into the harder side of BDSM.. the rougher, more painful, more humiliating, degrading, edgier etc one
Those of a maso disposition or interest are best suited for what I enjoy doing
I appeal a lot to the no limits and consensual non-consent type of subslave... the braver ones.!!

Open to discussing limits, safe words ..should they be needed or desired..initially at least..
I do not play at the same level with everyone. You are all different..so why would I.??
I know how to adapt to the needs and levels of my subslave but always with the view of pushing further..

Ive had the pleasure of introducing young women and newbies to all the pleasures related to being used in ways you havent tried... yet.. but probably thought about a lot.
I can be very patient if you have the potential and desire to become what you and I want and are prepared to show it.!!

I have a liking for hard SM and sexual use and abuse.. you are expected to have the same needslikesdesiresfantasies
As total sexual submission is compulsory with me you will be willing or trained to be shared with likeminded people (male, female, couples etc) on occasions.
A liking for being a slutwhorefuckmeat or treated like one or wanting to become one gets you to the top of the list.
The above is not optional and a deal breaker

Taboo, extreme, perversions, kinks..??
If all the people involved at the time enjoy them then they arent anymore..so lets enjoy them.
Just ask or just tell me what you havent dared say yet and lets see if we can make it happen.!! -)
Youre not the only one with that kink andor fantasy...!
Not much I havent done and enjoyed a lot.
I am discreet and totally non-judgemental, open- minded...and amoral.
Role-play medical (got equipment..), jailerinterrogator and prisoner, hard racial play, Daddylg (not baby..!! ), teacherpupil, pet ownertrainer ..and others .. tell me yours and lets make it happen if possible.!!

If youre married or in a relationship its your choice andor problem not mine. Im 100 discreet. Your secret is safe with me.!! I might just treat you a bit harder for being a cheating wife gf.. but you deserve it and will accept it.. -)

I am into all sorts of humiliation, degradation, abuse, defiling, bondage, controls of different types, sensory deprivation.