Who I am
I am a dominant male with 10 years experience in BDSM, both in the bedroom and as a lifestyle. I am easygoing, affectionate, and a deep thinker. I take good care of those close to me.

As a Dom I am strict and have high expectations for my sub. I am willing to expend significant effort to ensure we both have the best possible experience. For details about what I enjoy, see my list of kinks, or ask.

I am more active on Fetlife (username The-Adversary) and have a lot more interesting writing there.

What I offer
I offer a safe opportunity to explore your submission, experience something new, and discover more of yourself. I offer caring but firm guidance. I offer frank and open communication, discretion, and attention. I offer structure and swift correction as well as lots of cuddles.

I promise to thoroughly negotiate before exposing you to anything new, to respect your hard limits, and to hold our safeword(s) sacred.

I offer references within the community to confirm my authentic intent.

What I want
I want a regular partner for BDSM play, with the possibility of growing into a more serious relationship if the chemistry is right. I would like to meet up in person at minimum once per month for dates and play, with more frequently being preferred.

My ideal partner is a submissive female who identifies as a sub, little, pet, or slave. This person should be curious, feminine, eager to serve, and committed to her own health and wellbeing.