12/16/2017 10:28:57 PM: I wonder how anyone can consider themselves a slave to women without knowing that women don't need to focus on sex since men are readily available to do whatever she wants in the bedroom. Real Dominant women  don't need to come to a site like this for kinky conversations as men everywhere are desperate for kink.Its outside the bedroom that is difficult to find and if that works, the bedroom will work too. I will therefore not have any sexual discussions online. I find them tedious and boring. 

12/16/2017 8:17:40 PM: I prefer to meet in person... with you traveling to me. Starting the relationship with a sacrifice of your time and agenda to make meeting easy for me. I cannot believe the number of 'slaves/subs' that expect me to travel to them or expect me to communicate in a way they prefer.  I actually had someone request that I drive 4 hours one way to pick him up. What? I don't take requests. My time and attention is a gift that cannot be demanded. So while claiming to be dedicated to making my life easier, you start by making it more complicated and whine if I refuse. Thankfully its easy to see through the wankers.Instantly tells me you are not ready to be led anywhere. I understand you have been burned before. So have I and if there is a risk, you are the one that will take it. I know I am worth it. You need to prove your worth to me and make yourself someone I don't want to live without. Do what you claim and make this easy for me. I'm too busy to cater to you.

11/27/2017 4:10:19 PM: What do I want is a question that has an ever changing answer. I guess you could say I want someone to pay attention to details, adapt, open to change in some areas and understanding some things will never change... like my need for a perfect cup of coffee every morning. I like to explore and figure out the best fit. Since I have not had this kind of personal relationship, I can only say what I want is what I have at work, but with more personal touches. I have always been naturally dominant and men (even the most alpha of men) are often surprised how quickly they jump to do as I ask. I used to think it was because I was a young woman in a male dominated field but I am not so young anymore and still have that effect on the men I work with.I appreciate hard work and effort, especially if someone is able to take direction. If I am not happy, I always give an opportunity to make things up to me. It stands to reason that any personal relationship will start with no strings domestic service. The response to my direction and correction will dictate how quickly someone becomes indispensable to me and with time, the most treasured relationship I have.Eventually, I expect my ideal days to like this:I wake up to the smell of coffee and a warm embrace. The bathroom is heated and water is running for me. I notice and approve of the clothes laid out for me, as the perfect cup of coffee is handed over. After my bath, I check my emails and social media while my hair is dried and straightened and I continue to sip my coffee. All this happens silently until I am ready for a conversation about the day ahead. I let you know what your day should look like what non-routine things I need taken care of. As I dress, you get my car started and heated or cooled for me and I give you a thank you kiss on my way out the door.I may call you to bring me lunch or join you at home for lunch. That is all determined by text message. If you don't hear from me, you know I have other plans.I text you when I am on my way home and you have a glass of wine ready for me. The animals are taken care of and the house is spotless. I hug you, very much appreciating the effort you have put into making sure everything is just right. I lay back against you on the couch while I sip my wine and we go over the day. You ask if I want a neck or back massage before or after dinner. I sit back to watch the news while you finish preparing dinner that I have requested via text earlier in the day.After dinner there is time for exercise, entertainment, and sometimes I work some more. Another relaxing bath and we head to bed to see what mood I am in... will I want a massage and fall asleep or will I be in a more playful mood? 

5/15/2016 2:54:38 PM: Heading to NYC with a couple of friends May 20-22. Would love to have a chauffeur while there... could be the first step to a long relationship.

7/28/2015 3:34:31 PM: Heading to NYC this weekend. Would love to meet for a coffee or glass of wine.