geld: 1. to castrate (an animal). 2. to take strength, vitality, or power from; weaken or subdue. For the record, the latter definition is the relevant one for my nick.

Hi there. I'm Barrett. I'm a 38 yo self-employed submissive guy and all around kinkster splitting time between the beautiful Pacific Northwest and Las Vegas (where I typically spend at least 4 months each year). I earned a Bachelors of Science degree on the East Coast, but gravitated toward the service industry, having worked about 10 years in the DC and Seattle fine dining and nightclub markets in every conceivable capacity, before taking an indefinite hiatus and embarking on my current career (msg me for details). It's been interesting... On the vanilla side, I enjoy good food & wine, indie films, live music, pinball, hiking, skiing, politics & philosophy, and people watching.   As far as kink goes, I've been bondage fetishist since at least age 12, experimenting with self bondage and playing predicament escape games with friends. A neighbor (and future domme-in-training), honing the art of tease & denial, had a powerful influence as well.

Bondage and D/S are deeply ingrained in my psyche and will be a significant component of any relationship with future partners. I'm particularly fascinated by rigid bondage devices (esp. wooden and steel) like stocks and yokes. Special consideration for anyone with a pillory in need of a victim for longtime restraint; randomly flogged, abused, and humiliated. Hmmm.  For at least twenty years I've had an abiding curiosity in chastity, esp. of the enforced variety.  I own a Jones chastity belt and iron KTB.  Very frustrating in Vegas, where visual stimulation isn't in short supply. I'm also curious about various torture techniques, positional punishments, corporal and impact play, electrical, caging, straitjackets, latex fashion, femdom, etc.  I guess I'm a buffet diner when it comes to BDSM.   All of that being said, I first and foremost have a deeply submissive and service-oriented nature.  My wants and interests are subordinate to those of my partner's. I take pleasure in engaging in activities that make my partner happy. I'm intrigued by female dominance, power exchange, sexual control, degradation, and humiliation.  Eventually, I'd like to be a part of a female led relationship, perhaps leading to marriage. In the meantime, I'm trying to enjoy the ride and more fully embrace the lifestyle, making friends along the way, and am open to both casual and LT play. More to come...