3/16/2024 7:30:27 AM: My view on online dating sites: They work great when seen as a way to make a connection with someone you wouldn't otherwise meet as long as you then quickly move the introduction into real time and real life dating. Otherwise, it's a waste of time for me. That's why I won't chat with you or entertain any 'possibilities' if you live more than 100 miles away from me. If you're spending all of your free time interacting online, then you're only going to cotinue facilitating your online relationships. And that is definitely NOT what I personally am looking for. I'm only interested in meeting people fact-to-face and spending time together person-to-person. I currently host a singles gathering in Fort Myers, FL for just this purpose. Because I understand that if I want to interact more with people in person I have to actually meet up with people in person. We meet on the 3rd Friday of the month. Message me if you want more info about the location. It's a great group, and a good way to connect with others. So I just want to make it clear that if you send me a message expressing interest, I'm going to want to pin down an actual meet in Fort Myers within a week or so of our first conversation or I'm going to completely lose interest. It is what it is.

10/31/2022 10:15:53 AM: I must be a masochist, because I can't seem to leave this site completely, even though I know how much it fucking sucks. It's like we're all just trolling the bottom of the barrel of humanity here trying to find a dream partner that doesn't actually exist. And yet, here we all still are, day after fucking day...                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

5/3/2022 7:06:21 AM: Hey, guys. Just so you know, this ain't my first rodeo. I was experimenting with S&M activities long before I was legal, or had actual sex. And so I call BULLSHIT on your 'D/s is mainly mental' blah, blah, blah. A solid D/s relationship is a 3 legged stool of mind, body, and spirit. Each leg is equally important, and MUST be equally developed in order for there to be balance and harmony in the power exchange relationship. This is not optional, and you don't get to change the D/s laws of the universe just because you live 3000 miles away, or are trapped in a boring marriage. Mind. BODY. Spirit. For a masochist, one of these things MUST take place in person. So regular face to face meets are NOT optional. Smacking myself online while you watch does NOT count. And if you live more than 100 miles away, I'm not driving, or flying, to your place every week. It is what it is.

5/1/2022 11:59:43 AM: Can I be honest for a moment? I never wanted to live to be this old. I used to tell my friends all the time I didn't want to live past the age of 55, and I meant it. But here I am, and the next 40 or so years look even more bleak than the first 55 were. I was deliberately reckless in my youth for a reason. And you know I'm going to live to be at least 100. Because God is a sick sadistic fuck, and knows I don't really want to be here any more. Yet here I be. And the ONLY thing I'm interested in these days is going to kink parties and having fun with my friends from time to time. So if you don't want to take me out to a kink party, get off my fucking lawn.  

12/29/2021 5:00:21 PM: Now that the journal entries are functional again, I find I have nothing more to say. Typical...