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| Ok, time to update this. I'm a 38 year old Dom who's looking for a long term D/s relationship. I'm very real and not into games or online play, and I'm not new to the lifestyle either. I don't get hung up on titles or labels, but I'm looking for a very submissive woman who enjoys pleasing her man. I don't have one set, pre-determined life or relationship I'm looking for, but I know what I like and what I don't.
As for myself, I'm a professionally employed, financially stable Dom, and fully capable of taking care of a sub/slave in my home... whether she has a career of her own outside the home or not. I've been involved with D/s on and off for a decade. I'm drug and disease free and expect the same from whoever I'm with. I'm intelligent, sarcastic, and have a dark, twisted sense of humor that delights in seeing a tied up girl squirm. I'm not a one track mind either... while I enjoy BDSM a great deal, I have a ton of other interests outside of the lifestyle.
I'm not here just for kinky sex or occasional bedroom play either; I'm interested in D/s as a way of life. While I enjoy the physical aspect... and I enjoy it a great deal, it's the mental/psychological side that really appeals to me. It's the control and power exchange that I love. But as activities go, I really enjoy punishment, domination, humiliation, restraints, age play, spanking, rape play, objectification, orgasm control, electrical play, and many, many, many other things.
If you're interested, send me a message and tell me about yourself. I'm not the type of fake Dom that's going to act like he owns you without knowing you, tries to boss you around in the first email, or tries to humiliate you online. I believe in and enjoy control a great deal, but everything has its place. You'll be treated with as much respect as I treat everyone else, which I expect in return. I believe that subs are completely free to make their own decisions up until the point they agree to submit to another and decide how deeply they're willing to go.
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All this snow and no one to engage in snow bondage with... :( |
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http://thechive.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/the-dar-39.jpg |
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Where there's equal perversion, there's no depravity... only pleasure. |
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Everything in the world is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.
-Oscar Wilde |
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With apologies to people who have really lost a significant other... why does it seem like every other sub here is looking because their last Master passed away? It makes me think we have very short life spans as Doms... |
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Question: Why do so many subs state in their profile that they're attached or owned, but still have their settings set that they're actively looking for Dominant Men? |
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Doesn't 'no-limits online-only' rank up there with 'military intelligence' in terms of oxymorons?
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When I see a profile for a Domme, most say that a male sub has to prove himself worthy to serve her. Alright. But now, when I see profiles for female subs, a lot of them say that Doms must prove themselves worthy to collar them. I realize that there's a huge gender imbalance, but still. Being on this site makes me wonder... Who really has the power here? |
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I get a lot of questions about my tattoos, so I'm just going to add it here: The right arm is a verse in Sanskrit from the Bhagavad Gita that says "I am become death, destroyer of worlds". The left arm is a verse in Hebrew from the Old Testament that says "May the Lord bless and keep you. May his light shine on you. May he be gracious to you and give you peace".
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lib·er·tine : a person who is unrestrained by convention or morality; specifically : one leading a dissolute life
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