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Sometimes things dont work out as we thought they would. Sometimes they do.
My latest adventure, while not working as we originally hoped, did give me another friend!

And once again my lifes direction has changed. I am alone again. I hate being alone. For those of you who dont know me and for those that do, there have been many changes. I dont walk so good anymore, use oxygen most of the day and have gained weight.

I will be amending this profile as time goes on.

Contrary to popular belief, I do not top from the bottom. I would much rather be known as selectively submissive.

My Best Friend and life-partner left this world August 2011.

After nearly 15 years my partner and Dominant has passed away. I have grieved for him and will always miss him.

I have now reached the point where I am ready to move on with the right dominant man who can be dominant without being domineering. Someone who understands that being submissive and being a masochist are not mutually inclusive. A secure man who wants the full relationship with that constant undercurrent of Ds flowing through our lives. A relationship should involve both people....While I enjoy giving pleasure...I do not find my pleasure in only giving some yahoo a blow job.

I am also looking for a friend....someone who knows the words to the same songs I do. Someone who reads, someone who speaks well....someone who will hold me...and only that when I need to be held. Someone who knows the lindy! Someone who is financially secure, someone who does NOT live with his mother. Someone who does not need multiple submissives, as I failed sharing in kindergarten. Someone who can keep me in line....letting me get my toes to that line but never, ever allowing me over it.

I have a strong need to belong and to have someone belong to me and
I need quite a bit of attention. I think they call it chai maintenance.

Please do not contact me if you are married, have a vanilla girlfriend or wife who just doesnt share your kinky tendencies, are unable to go to social gatherings, or BDSM parties.

Hugs are ALWAYS welcome.

FIinx