"The energy I bestow upon You does not make me weaker, but instead makes You stronger."

Preface: This profile is generally directed towards a Female Dominant. However I am also open to serving a Dominant couple or possibly even a family. 

A humble nod and smile to that very special woman who may come across this profile. You know who you are. You're not just any woman, but one whose Dominant energy, strength and power comes from deep inside and seeks it's manifest as spiritual and holistic, and is part of a transcendent journey, even through lifetimes. The lifeblood of this energy goes far beyond physical and carnal pleasure.

I am an entrepreneur and have enjoyed some degree of success. I am a gourmet chef, a graphic designer, video producer, writer and airplane pilot, not necessarily in that order. But, alas, in all of life's chapters, it continues to come up empty in the absence of a higher order, a higher power, a higher energy of which my service and worship is entirely devoted to.

With both humility and honesty, I say the following about myself:

I embody an old soul. I have many years of world culture experience, and perhaps that could be useful. 

My motivation to find the ideal mate is NOT merely a sexually-driven motivation. Although sexuality can serve as great fuel, torment or motivator, it seems to me that a true sub/slave/servant (however defined) cannot demand or even expect sexual fulfillment. To affirm my disposition, I'll mention that some of my relationships have been with Lesbians, where my sexuality was irrelevant, even shut off entirely (chaste). 

Although I am slightly older, I am fairlly attractive and fit for my age, single/no kids/no baggage (no really!), D/D free/,fully vaccinated and healthy, intelligent, creative and engaging. I practice meditation and eat mostly a plant-based diet, a tech-savvy, spiritually-evolved man who carries a degree of tantric energy, and mostly, a strong and passionate believer in the magnetic power of a well-balanced and healthy D/s relationship. 

 I suppose it may be unusual to find someone with this kind of confidence, conviction, passion and life experience that that also carries the heart of a true devotee; a servant, a submissive or even a slave, but I believe it takes a long journey to come full circle and let the dynamics fall in their most natural state, rather than to let "society" tell us how/who we should be.

Men, ehh...

Most men worship the feminine divinity. It's in every move we make. But, combined with misdirected testosterone and ego, we pine for the female energy and spirit as a 'conquest' rather than expressing worship.  To me, this completely contaminates and confuses gender dynamics. To use an example in the carnal sense, I truly believe a submissive male can be entrained to be just as fulfilled by his Goddess' orgasm, in place of his own. 

Pain and suffering:

In my mind's eye, I see a relationship of great power, balance and mutual respect. In this vision we would walk the walk of our well-galvanized roles, and within that role I would accept that my desires and tastes may not always be relevant. The dynamic underscores the foundational fabric of our relationship and agreement, and even the slightest breach of this would represent a leak in the system. All decisions, I believe, should be commanded, directed or decided by the feminine, and that would include the decision to cause pain, suffering or humiliation, etc, either as punishment or as psychological entrainment for sake of conditioning. 

If I were to truly let my mind flow unrestricted.. in this light, the term "limits" make no sense to me.  Rather than carrying a personal dossier of soft limits, hard limits, label #1, label #2, rules or safewords, i have but one thing: TRUST.    Trust - that you, and only you, know exactly what is best for me, to make me shine for you and empower you in the best way possible. If punishment is to be extreme and severe, then it is, quite simply, your choice, and I have to trust that you have the wisdom, perspective and experience.. to make these choices. 

Aah.. but such a dream!  Could this relationship really exist?

I understand that all possible energies must be focused on my Goddess; Her Majesty, Her Desires, Her directions, Her rules, Her pleasure, Her comfort, Her empowerment, Her happiness and Her welfare. 

I understand that I will consistently be a work in progress. And though it may take time to achieve the desired level of perfection, through our mutual experience, conditioning/dedication/devotion, we work together towards the goal of our highest synergistic vibration.  

My talents? I'm good at decoration/design/house maintenance, graphic design/websites, driving/errands, cooking, entertaining, human psychology and positive empowerment. On a physical note, without getting too detailed, let's say that I have very gifted hands and mouth. 

I have a few decades experience in this lifestyle, in different facets. I've run the gamut of semi-sub/semi-vanllia - - all the way to serving a sadistic Lesbian couple where Old Guard al protocol was strictly enforced by severe punishments and humiliation, and I was made to serve in continual chastity.  

Ideally I wish to locate my soulmate, but I might be interested in a short term or casual relationship as well.