I am humbly confused by some people on here. I try hard to create two-way respectful dialogue in safe and positive situations. I value body positivity and value that people come in different sizes and shapes and can be amazing. 

Someone recently wrote me off for not being Studdly McMuffington. This bums me out because snap judgments on physical attraction as the main way of deciding if someone is fun, sexy and respectful are the exact opposite of how I approach things and how I value people. While it is fun to use the outside for ideas in play, it's the internal, mental things, the creativity, the communication, the inner naughtiness, and the thoughtfulness that I'm on here seeking so often.

I look forward to reciprocating these values with you.