Hello everyone, my name is Michael and after finally moving to Tampa and being able to settle in, I have decided to start exploring the BDSM community here in Tampa.  Over the last several years I have made it to a Munch here and there and several play parties but never on a consistent basis. 

The Fun Vanilla Things:

The things in life that I enjoy most are being able to spend time with friends, fine dining and great wine.  Wine is not just a hobby but also my profession.  I also enjoy animals and nature. 

My Mindset:

I identify as a strait submissive leather boy and I am looking for a dominant female to have vanilla and kinky fun with. As a submissive I can fill various roles in different relationships.  I can be in an exclusive relationship serving just her.  If a lady already has a significant other, I am comfortable enough with myself to submit to her.  I do not have a desire, want, nor need to submit to another male.  

Likes, Dislikes, Turn Ons, Turn Offs and The Hard Limits:

I am sure you are aware of SSC and RACK.Putting needles into my flesh, sounds in my urethra, setting me on fire, cutting me open, tying me up and beating me, and allowing me to be placed in a chastity device that causes extreme pain, though consensual cannot be safe nor sane.Thus, I believe in risk aware, consensual kink since I am well aware of what dangers can and lay waiting.

First the disappointing stuff, what you can't do to me, ever!Anything sexual with anybody underage, other males and any animal, no permanent damage either physical or mental, as well as scat are activities that I will not partake in. Because of recent surgeries I am NOT to be penetrated anally at any time by anyone other than my medical doctor, doing so could result in permanent damage at the very least more surgery.  Anything else will be negotiated before play begins.The type of play I enjoy varies like a person's craving for food, except my craving for chocolate and cookies, they are not a sometimes food.

I am a voyeur and exhibitionist which can lead to a wide scenario of play styles.I enjoy humiliation, of course both public and private.CBT is for me as well as other forms of pain, pleasure and discipline. I may not enjoy an activity such as a spanking but that does not make it a hard limit.I do understand that there might be an activity that you enjoy and I do not, guess what, I know I will learn to enjoy it since I want to make you happy.

Great Expectations (Not the Novel, and yes I have read a book or two in my life, just not this one):

You should expect that I am a real person, in a real place, wanting to meet a real Domme that I can eventually have fun with. I expect things to move offline and eventually a meet in a neutral setting that are fun. You should expect nothing kinky the first date (unless we negotiate otherwise), and if me being a gentleman is strange to you, remember when I open a door for you it is being polite, nothing more nothing less (meaning, it is not an act of submission but strictly manners).I do not expect that you are the most skilled Domme, you might even be a novice by all standards, but I do expect that you want to learn.

Finally, The End of my Rhetoric:

To sum it up, I am looking for a local lady in the Tampa Bay area that I can have fun with, get to know and perhaps form a long term relationship with.When we first meet, expect nothing serious, except two people looking to have a good time.

With Respect and Honor,
boy michael

(Yes,I am aware that there is protocal for written letters, but I am one who follows proper rules of grammar, to the best of my ability, until she tells me otherwise.)