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So I've always known this to be the case but I never fully understood the scope until talking with a sub the other day. They really are far FAR too many men on this site. The sub, who will remain nameless, told me that she receives literally 5+ pages of messages every day. She said it makes her feel like a supermodel here, while only feeling average at best in real life.
If you were inundated with that number of potential suitors day in and day out, I can understand why you'd end up with some very unrealistic expectations of what you can expect to pull. Why even above average potentials would be tossed aside in favor of holding out for an exceptional one because after all, you have 100's per day pouring in, why would you settle for good when you can have perfect, I mean he'll have to be somewhere in that crowd right?
Honestly, I believe the truth is anything but that. In my opinion, most men here think that kinky women are somehow easier than women they would meet elsewhere so they put the check by the "dominant" box and hope that telling random women to get on their knees in an opening e mail will lead to her packing up and flying across the world to live in his moms basement with him. So you end up with a minority who live and breathe this title, the lifestyle, and a horde of those thinking about the easiest way to get their next orgasm.
I've not been exactly hopeful about my chances of finding anything of substance from this site, but that revelation just took that hope down a few more notches. |
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It was over, I sat there in silence, sweat dripping off my body. It was my routine, every week the same as the last. The only change is the numbers, Numbers on the weights, numbers on the scales, numbers of the day. It's been over 3 years since I've began this. Three years of blood and sweat. Three years of sculpting my body. Three years of being alone in my self crafted dungeon. I hated the loneliness, still do. But I do it because I needed to, I needed to change. I needed the pain of sculpting. When will I reveal it to you all? Perhaps never. Perhaps I'll change my mind before I finish this entry. The odds are somewhere in the middle. Will you see what's inside pandora's box? Or will you continue to just stare at the packaging I have put on it? Only time will tell...Only time will tell... |
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Every submissive I've been around...ever "http://oglaf.com/submission/" |
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So I read this profile and it claims to of been in the lifestyle since they were 13, Little gal also has photo's of her sucking some faceless dude's dick as well as her getting plowed by some other faceless dude, finally has a "normal" photo of her flipping the bird and I can't help but think to myself
"Damn, This is one classy broad." |
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I like when I work out and I push myself so hard I nearly black out during the set. |
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Oh silly silly girl. You're 18 with 6 months of "experience" and once again you have the nerve to call me a fake.
Fake is such a dumb word, its starting to lose all meaning to me. Maybe its just the lifestyle attracting people like this who just have no realistic idea of what they want. |
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So I spend about 2 weeks with a cute little sub I met. Three nights a week. So, apparently because I'm not abusive (her words, not mine). I'm not a real Dom.
Why is that nearly every single s-type I've talked to has the nerve to call someone a fake for not meeting their 586 point list? |
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For fucks sake people, show that you have at least a LITTLE class. Throwing up photo's that I can literally see inside you is great and all...if you're a porn star. |
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A slave comes to me with a list of demands and expects me to conform with all of them. When I refuse this proposal I am "not a real Dom". Had I given in to these absurd demands I would of been considered "not Dominant enough" due to the fact that I'm letting a slave push me around.
I certainly agree with one of these statements, guess which one. |
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419 scammers that don't know how to convert kilograms into pounds on their profiles make me laugh. Oh so you're 6'2'' and 55 lbs? Awesome...my skeleton weighs more than you.
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Give respect to get respect. This is how I was raised and something that I live by to this day. I have added to the saying since. "Give respect to get respect, If your respect is not reciprocated then cease giving respect." I can honestly say that my respect has yet to be reciprocated by any who I have written.
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It bugs me when people whine about people not reading their journals before messaging them when their journal is black text with black background.
So, in order to read your profile we have to copy and paste into another window. Yes, that seems like a great idea.
If you want people to read your profile then make people be able to read it.
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Frustrating. I always seem to come back to this word when I describe my search. I have people who misread my profile or journal completely even after I explain it to them 3 or 4 times.
I have people who have the nerve to call me a fake Dom because I don't bend to THEIR WILL, go figure that one out.
As I said in my first journal, I never get a response back when I actually invest a few minutes to write out a decent first e-mail but when I scrawl some garbage, I get an e-mail back.
But I persevere. I will not fail.
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Alright, I know I'm not the best looking guy on this site, I don't need to be told that or be "brought down a notch" so to speak.
However, I would like to speak out just a bit on those among you, male and female, sub/switch/dom alike, who demand certain aspects from a partner that you really have no right demanding.
If you are a Dom and you're broke and can hardly take care of YOURSELF let alone another person then do not be demanding 24/7 TPE of all things. Honestly, it just won't work, get a real fucking job THEN you MIGHT be able to make those demands, although I seriously doubt it. If you don't understand you can't do that BEFORE getting a real job then getting a job isn't going to help you. My personal suggestion? Just leave the lifestyle to those of us who actually have a realistic outlook.
On the same turn, If you are a sub and you're absolutely hideous. I mean fucked up teeth, dirty, unkempt hair, and weigh twice as much as ME (and I'm a damn big guy) then don't go off DEMANDING that your Dom be super rich, have 6 pack abs, and be willing to do VERY SPECIFIC things to you or its a deal breaker (I recently saw a "sub" profile that DEMANDED the dom make her sleep in a cage as well as everything else listed above).
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I've been doing a lot of thinking lately. What would be the one thing I would want from my s-type? The answer to that is simple, appreciation.
I, as a man, would value nothing higher than to be appreciated. I think that is a reasonable expectation.
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Sad that when I write a message that actually has something to do with someone's profile I never get a response back, but if I write up some generic garbage I always get a response.
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