Neurotics build castles in the sky. Psychotics move in. This statement might be attributed to an otherwise obscure English nobleman. Or I might have heard it in a Three Stooges short. But wisdom is wisdom and Ill take it where I find it. Im suggesting that we build something as secure as a castle and Im certainly not suggesting that we move. Im suggesting regular and reliable visits to a secure, safe place we create. If there is a physical structure image, its this one. Its a fine Victorian house. Solid, respectable, admired by passersby. There is corridor on upper floor, polished hardwood floor. Natural light. There is a heavy door at the end of the corridor. Beyond it is our place. Its safe and secure. There are two keys to the lock. You have one. You keep it in a safe place until we meet there. The sound of your footsteps on that polished hardwood, of the door closing behind you, the lock being thrown, the key hung its place until its time to go. A powerful thing.
You Adventurous enough to come to this place. Possibility professional but that doesnt matter because we have bigger fish to try. Conversationalist because we will often be voices. Secretly smiling because you know you and I exist.
Me In the arts and doing well. Lets leave it at that for now. Often irreverent. Read, write, travel. Loiter in choice places for conversation, cocktails.  As fit as I need to be unless an act of congress requires that I must be drafted into the Olympics. Require and guarantee the utmost attention and discretion. Ill be pleased to explain the posted name.
If all this works for you, well build that house in time. Then perhaps well meet in a place where no one knows us or cares what were doing.

Youre one in millions. I want to know you.You have broad choices for entertainment and more opportunities for personal and professional fulfillment than any generation, even our own, could have imagined. You have a civilizations ination and knowledge - if not its wisdom - before you at your pleasure. But there is nothing that touches you so much as my creation of your private and personal,exquisitely crafted and implemented mind fuck

Yes. That BridlePth again And, perhaps, the structured, elegant, exquisite Bridle Path of our creation. And yes, Im back. For how long? It would be interesting to be interested. I maintain few illusions. But Im open to visions.

My involvement in This thing of ours predates the broad use of the internet, My seasoning has served only to focus my zeal. But I have learned the value of contact with a fascinating mind. Ideally you are someone I would want to know even if we werent both citizens of Fetish Island. Its all very tasty, of course. But if you dont bring a sense of humor and a vital mind its really not a trip.

You and I love elegant, sculptural bondage, strict but real world joyous discipline, structure and accountability the creation of a fully realized private world.

I am more the inspirational type of speller. I work on hunches rather than mere facts, and the result is sometimes open to criticism by purists. Robert Benchley.