3/24/2018 6:27:22 AM: Too often, s-type (and other) men message FemDoms with the expectation that She will instantly take his 'proposal' to serve or be owned. Many times, these men aren't even in the same locale as the Woman and She is still expected to say 'yes' to his solicitation. There are some FemDoms on this site who aren't even looking for men, but female s-types. If She does not accept his solicitation, a barge of insults and even racial epithets will ensue. I live in Atlanta, GA and I facilitate groups that encourage and support FemDoms and the men/women s-types who enjoy interacting and/or pursuing a dynamic with Her. I do not accept proposal or petitions online; one must be local or near the city of Atlanta to engage or submit such. I also live in a 24/7 a authority-based dynamic; I have been in my dynamic for 8 years...so I know what I want and will accept. I will respond to simple and respectable inquiries, but what I will not do (as stated in my profile) is engage in online kink/BDSM or PE. It is 100% my choice and no insults will make me change my personal requirements.I received this from a man who send me (three) messages soliciting. After this last message, he, of course, blocked me so he could not read my response: From: HUMANCHATTEL Dated: 3/22/18 10:26 AM Are you fucking mad you goddamn ape? At no time did I state anything about online you moron. I seek real life in real time and I think you know this already you scum. My simple response I typed prior to finding out I was blocked:'No, but I was waiting for you to say something derogatory as most white men do towards women and women of other races who do not want to explore anything with those not local. You messaged me, I did not message you. No worries...I have a dynamic, and you do not. -MsDDom'I went from being a gracious Lady to being an ape because I specifically stated that he would need to come to Atlanta and make an introduction; he was not local so why was he sending me his petition? He could have simply went back to read my profile and understood that his initial message would be lost on me as I do not entertain such proposals/petitions.I post this to say, an ounce of reality would help when submitting inquiries to ANYONE. This site is all in fun (there are some nice photos to compliment) and can 'help', somewhat  with making initial 'contact' to planning a meet up to explore kink/fetish/BDSM. This site is not perfect and neither are the people on it, but at best, we can learn to read and respect what is being stated in profiles. Or is that too much like right?MsDDom

6/21/2017 1:26:53 PM: QUESTION OF THE CENTURY: Why won't I train you online?

6/7/2017 10:06:59 AM: Tip of the month:Don't let your personal insecurities get the best of your judgement. Just because someone ONLINE will not do your bidding only mean they do not want to partake in your games.Telling someone they are not submissive or dominant enough ONLY speaks to your personal insecurities.Be wise.MsDDom

10/16/2015 6:48:33 AM: Question of the day, month, and year...Why do many profiles on this site state:-'No fakes'-'Only real time'-'I want to talk to real people only'-'If your fake, don't contact me'-'Looking for real-time only'When a real person approaches the people, they themselves become exactly what they complain about.Perhaps, knowing one's real purpose on this site is never really realize for those who claim to want real interaction.Ponder.MsDDom

3/24/2015 10:29:37 AM: One Rule.We all have personal rules by which we live and operate; that should not be different within the lifestyle.One rule I have in interacting with those who 'approach' online is that there is a public meeting. I am a private person just like the next, but I am also a participant in the public (Atlanta) kink community and have my own personal safety requirements. I run and attend munches; I attend workshops/classes; and I attend some of the local cons.This rule is a requirement; it doesn't mean everyone I 'meet' will conform...and that is okay. But know that it is a rule that I live by and operate within.I've had both men and women, on BOTH sides of the slash become defensive about 'coming out in public' to meet. Some get down right upset, but that is their personal issue. I've heard everything from I am a 'public figure' to 'I only do things in private'. I can respect that, just as they have to respect my rule.There are risks and safety; there is protection, preservation, and privacy; and there are rules. Consider it.MsDDom