7/23/2015 6:03:38 AM: 000519dc-eef4-1102-420e-1bf1babcaf50_60 Just a rant I believe.... Men should act like men. None of this sissy or submissive bulkshit. Men were not wired that way and it goes against nature. That women should act like women. Dommes, dominatrix, mistress. No! A woman's place is by her man. Preferably at his feet. The saying 'Behind every good man is a good woman'. I believe that. For a man to reach his fullest potential he needs the support of a woman. A woman who takes care of him so he can focus. The feminist movement was the ruination of this nation. For women to claim independence from a a make dominant culture is the man's fault. He forgot his purpose to love and honor his relationship and his woman. Women discovered she cannot count on her man's word and loyalty. They were forced to be independent because men failed. We, men, have become weak, cowardly. We prefer to hide our desires than to speak them openly. We cheat, we lie, we hold resentments for our decisions because we are too afraid of confrontation to stand our ground. Women have lost respect for us. To make matters worse men actively seak to be dominated. I will never understand that. I know all of what I've said is not very tolerant of me, but I don't care. I've spent my life trying to answer the question of what a real man is and I've come closer to answering that question. A real man honors his commitments. Bye honors and cherishes the women or women in his life. He's not afraid to say no. He'll Stan up and fight for what is his. He'll make decisions based on what is good for the family and not give in to whimsical notions. He's not afraid of being the minority vote when it's for the greater good. He wants to give his family everything they need but not everything they want. He'll put himself in between his family and any danger. A real man does not raise his hand in anger, but will punish when necessary. This is a man. Someone who ignores the pain and shoots for the in zone. Who, at all cost, puts his family first. A real man is not afraid to let those around him grow and flourish. Who keeps his ego in check. Who isn't afraid to admit when he's wrong or to fail. A real man learns from these mistakes and failures and continues on. Still providing and guiding. Who laughs with his kids and makes passionate love to his wife. Rant over.

2/20/2015 8:24:40 AM: Contrary to what you may think or have read this lifestyle is not easy. As a Dom you must have the discipline to always maintain discipline. You must appear to be in control even when on the inside you're tearing your hair out. You need to refrain from getting sucked into 'topping from the bottom' troationshios. Their expectations does NOT have to be your actions. Do not second guess yourself. You get sucked into that and your self-confidence goes right down the shitter. You are not perfect. You will make mistakes. That's just a given. It's how you handle those mistakes that shows the men from the boys. Be a Dom! Don't be a pussy! 'Nuf said! Don't be a couch master. This lifestyle required work. So get off your ass and do your part! She'll never follow you if you don't go anywhere! Take the bitch by the nipples (kinda like bull by the horns). Nut up or shut up. This isn't about sex! Well it is, but not. You'll understand once you get off the damn couch! Remember to properly train her, beat her, fuck her, use her.. You must first love her, care for her, respect her, honor her.

2/19/2015 5:38:05 AM: 'Give a man a mask, and he will show you his true face.' - Oscar Wilde

2/10/2015 1:30:04 PM: I love this lifestyle. And for me it truly is a lifestyle. I don't want to do the part time Dom shit or weekend sessions. I like the 24/7 im the boss type of relation. I read about Taken In Hand a few years back and loved loved loved the dynamics. Domestic Discipline?! Hell yes!! Love it.

2/10/2015 12:45:36 PM: Being a 'natural dominant' is not about always doing or saying the right thing. We are human, we will not always get it right. if we make decisions based on our own moral code we should not regret that decision. It may not have been the correct decision, but if we are humble enough to learn from it then that is true dominance. Dominance is not about ego, it's about humility.