Welcome to my profile!!

I have been on and off with this lifestyle for years, I was mostly vanilla but now I know exactly what I want. I am interested in meeting new people for a possible relationship (preferably) or casual play.

Me

I am a grad student in the area, I describe myself as an outgoing person, open minded and fun to be around. I am a private individual, family oriented and I am not interested in sharing pictures before at least talking with the other person and getting comfortable.

As a submissive I am more of a pleaser, putting my kinks and fetishes on the side, I focus more on being trained to please my dominant rather than viewing the relationship as transactional or exchange of benefits (Once we agree on limits, the only power I would have is the power to walk away). I am vanilla in public (this is non negotiable) submissive behind clothed doors but DISCREET public play can be fun sometimes. Please understand that as a submissive, I am giving my self for the dominant and I am putting myself in a vulnerable position so I carefully take my time to think before submitting to the person.

You I prefer someone around my age, I dont mind older Dommes if we get along well. I am looking to serve someone who is well cultivated, able to have conversations outside of kink. Ideally I am looking for someone that I can be friends with, I want to be your submissive and you friend, there is nothing wrong with doing your dishes and then cuddling and watching a show together. Ideally, I prefer my partner to be vanilla in public and kinky in private only.

If you are interested in learning more about me feel free to hit me up.