4/12/2017 12:20:55 PM: Just to clear some things up... and not for those who are overly PC, grew up getting a trophy for participation or otherwise still need to grow up.Straight... aka heterosexual... sex with the opposite sex.bisexual... ok with having sex with men or women.Lesbian... those who exclusively like sex with women and have no interest in men. (imo men, myself included, can be lesbian also) Hey if simply thinking oneself is another gender or race then I can have that view. To each their own but if you have or had a penis I have no sexual interest in you.transvestite... crossdresser... usually men who enjoy dressing in womens clothing. i.e. Rupaul... aka drag queen.transgender.... a person who has changed their genitillia both with hormones and anatomicly. Chas BonoBruce/Katlyn Jenner WAS a crossdresser... He finally got the balls to lose hir balls in January 2017.

8/27/2016 12:45:17 PM: Ladies, subs, slaves.... Yes you are unique to a degree and uncommon.  However you are NOT rare like unicorns.  Yes you may be special to someone in time but you aren't special to anyone before that time.

7/27/2015 10:15:33 AM: What is with 'slaves' placing demands lately?  I as a dominant seek to control and generally slaves seek to surrender control.  Beyond that simple premise there should NOT be topping from the bottom.  Yes we all want the right fit but saying you insist on this or that happening is topping from the bottom and makes you at best a submissive and more likely a switch or someone only seeking a thrill rather than someone seeking to surrender and serve other(s).

5/5/2015 6:24:28 PM: Sorry to those whom I offend but you are likely the ones who need to read this MOST:FAT does not equal big BEAUTIFUL woman, pleasingly plump, lots of curves, baby girl or any of the euphemisms some want to label themselves... you are FAT, not PHAT.  If you are a few pounds overweight that means 10 or maybe 20 pounds not 100 or 200.  If your doctor has you labeled as OBESE that means you have SERIOUS health concerns.  The entire kink/bdsm relationship relies on being honest.... and being honest with oneself is where it starts.For the skinny mini's out there... if you can not only count your ribs but the other bones in your body without an x-ray you have health issues as well.  Perhaps even more serious than those who are obese.I'm far from perfect.  I could stand to lose about 20 pounds, maybe even 30.  I plan on being around for at least the next 25 to 30 years and in good health.  I expect the same with those I would choose to be with.

3/15/2015 11:01:45 AM: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ko6N6yFFQdM