I am interested in meeting safe, sane, kind individuals.
Someone who knows how to enjoy life, is capable of having an adult relationship, and doesnt play games.

I understand that many adults choose to play games in their relationships but, I hope to avoid any misunderstandings by being up front with one another in the beginning.

And us both knowing what the other expects, desires, and needs from the other person.
WITHOUT PHOTO OF FACE I WILL NOT RESPOND.

The cheating mate and cheating on a mate. It may be human nature but, it is a huge waste of time. Plus, feelings get hurt and so on. Lets avoid this.

Its just easier to find someone who is into the same things that you are into and will be able to deal with your kinks, whatever they may be.


I am a widowed black woman who is very secure in my sexuality, desires, wants, and needs.
I can be a bit shy in the beginning due to me wanting to feel you out and learn about you. I tend to listen and ask questions while face to face the first few meeting.

I was in a thirteen year marriage with someone whom did not share my same kinks.
Why did it last 13 years? We have a child together.
And with children sometimes you have to put your needs on the back burner.

Husband has been deceased since 07-21-11 and my child will be 21 in October and she is living on her own.
So, now is the time to meet someone to enjoy.

I enjoy many activities reading, dominoes, card games, dancing, spending time with friends, cooking, and more.

Sexually I enjoy a wide variety of things, if we get past the first email and you would like to know more feel free to ask

But, l will let you know up front that I am only interested in a LTR. Unless I am feeling the need to end my celibacy, which I think about doing an all of a sudden the memory of the last time I wanted to get rid of the cobwebs.
It would have been more enjoyable had I been alone.
So, it has only been 16 months since my last sexual experience.

I have no desire to give birth to another child. I have one. Thats all I am willing to have.

Any disrespect will cause the arrangement between us to be rendered null and void immediately!

I am not with the whole unfaithful spouse or lover thing.
I am looking for someone who can be faithful. There will be no second chances, no need to ask for forgiveness, life is to short to deal with those who know from the start what is expected of them and they still decide to be dishonest.

I have no patience for liars and those who would waste my time and theirs.


I seek single males between the ages of 40 and 56. Must be loyal at all cost.

I am more interested in bisexual men because, I like to see my man with other men sexually. I find it extremely erotic.

Do not write to me if you are only looking to get laid!

Do not write to me if you are racist!

Do not write to me if you are not interested in a long term relationship or dont even know what one is.


No dominate males. A switch sure.

I am straight so, no women.

Do NOT write me if you are married! Unless you are a man married to a man and you both are bisexual.

But, know that you will always be shown respect and courtesy, if at anytime you feel that you are not being treated as you should, you are always welcome to voice your concerns.

Be prepared to provide photos. Many adventures awaits you. Serious replies only!

I am very attracted to men with grey hair, average to thin bodies, piercing blue eyes, enjoys a variety of kink, has a lot of free time, doesnt smoke cigarettes, doesnt drink excessively, doesnt have a drug addiction.

If I see a red flag I will run quickly for the hills!

GREY HAIR!!!!!! SEXINESS!!!!!!

NO ONLINE PLAY.


NO PHONE PLAY.


NO CAM PLAY.