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Im an intelligent, fairly active, and pretty independent switch. I enjoy aspects of both top and bottom, but am probably about 70 sub, 30 dom. That said, I am currently looking for a long term female led relationship where I am 100 submissive behind closed doors, but a normal relationship outside the home. I am also looking for like-minded individuals in the community, whether it be in the of friends, mentors, play partners, etc., with my ultimate goal to find one person to have a long term relationship with. I want to be with someone that understandsappreciatesneeds me as much as I do her. Im not looking for someone to take care of me nor am I looking to take care of someone else. I have my life together and you should, too.



If I contact you or you contact me, I am looking to know more about you. Im definitely a believer in the fact that if you dont like the normal or non-kinky things about someone, the kink wont matter in the end- the relationship is doomed from the start. Usually, people want to immediately know, What are you offering? or What are you after? Im not offering you anythingyet. Im interested in trying to get to know you better, seeing if we might have similar interests andor connection, and hopefully meeting you in real life (I am not looking for an email buddy). The offering comes after that and after trust is built. I am open to long distance, as long as regular human contact is involved (more than a state away will probably be too far). Im a real person looking for a real relationship, not an online only thing. If you like what youve read, I look forward to knowing more about the real you. If I fail to send you a pic within the first couple messages, just ask me for one. Its not up for professional reasons (Boise is like a giant small town, and I prefer discretion).
7/6/2008 7:55:27 PM
I'm a doorman, not a doormat.
7/4/2008 11:52:41 PM
You shouldn't worry about snakes in the garden when you've got spiders in your bed.
Joanne2006
 
 Age: 49
 Princeton, New Jersey