New Orleans Native. Just moved to Portland.

I'm serious about covid and no one in my family has gotten it yet and I plan to keep it that way.

To that end, I'm FULLY VACCINATED!!1!

In a vanilla ethically non monagamous marriage of 14 years. We are great communicators, are stable and love each other dearly.

Big Dictionary Energy

Seeking uncomplicated relationships with complex people, intellectual explosions with an intense erotic component.

My love language is declarations of my own godhood. Also, deep self deprecation.

I'm a damn fool and a changeling. Elemental.

Bros, I'm not down for random, cock oriented bullshit. Please, just pass me by.

On more than one spectrum.

About me. I'm living on the edges. Barely able to keep it all together. I'm a mess that has my shit together. Together. Barely. I'm also explosions of deep empathy and deep consternation. But yes, together.

I am hot then cold, intimate then distant, hungry, insatiable, irascible, contrary, energetic, a damn good dancer, the list goes on and on....I can cook, clean, per feats of strength and agility, am employed, housed, showered, well read, polite (yes ma'am) and can give massages all day long....Puns rock my world as does self reference and recursion. I am addicted to moving my body and using my mind. I am a glutton and a dedicated friend. I love to write and am an astrology nut.( i can generally compute a chart in my head if the birthday is within a few years of my own...). I have clairvoyant paranoia. I have precognitive dissonance. I have many other ways of seeing at my disposal. I have a garbage disposal, dinner plans and dog biscuits. I have many many options and a strong sense that freedom comes from within, where I shall never find it. Freedom is lost, Failure is just around the corner and the only thing that consoles me anymore is the sound of my own voice, and the fact that I don't cut myself shaving as often as I used to, but then again, I don't shave as often I used to either.......................

Books: Dune, Schild's Ladder, Quantum Thief, Three Body Problem.

Movies/Shows: Episode IV, Episode V, Hellraiser, Alien, Aliens, Legion, Logan

Music: King Crimson, Swans, Angels of Light, Dead Can Dance, Ekova, Stella Mara, Susheela Raman, Vas, Ali Akbar Moradi, Dax Riggs, Faith No More, Frank Black, Heartless Bastards, Hope for Agoldensummer, Jollyship the Whizbang, Morphine, Neutral Milk Hotel, Soul Coughing, They Might Be Giants, Tune Yards

If you've read this far you probably want to know which way I swing. I'm a bit of a changeling, coning to the container of my relationships. That being said, topping is not a continuous thing for me, but I am quite good at it. I'm ridiculously ambitious but not alpha. Male dominance hierarchies exhaust me. I'm much more responsive to female energies. Yet, I have a boyfriend back in New Orleans. On the sub side, I'm highly devoted, doting, observant and competent.

Feel free to DM me.

Interested in FLR, Hypnosis, Submission, objectification, Tease and Denial, Service.

Experienced, attentive, communicative, honest, good looking, personable, fun.

On the spectrum, but warm.

Have a hi EQ.

Hope this finds you well.