Hello all, first, I don't like to bother women on this site - you all get crazy amounts of emails and I am not looking to add to that - if you take a look at my profile and have any interest, drop a quick line, I'll be sure to respond.  I am not being lazy, just trying to not add to the problem.  Thanks!

What am I looking for?  That's a tricky question.

I am looking for an intelligent, witty, compatible and exciting woman.  I can't imagine a connection with a woman who was not intelligent and capable of conversation.  I am somewhat shy initially, mainly because I do not wish to impose, but once I get to know you I am full of creativity and conversation.

From a play stand point, I'd rather use my brain than exclusively whips and chains.  I prefer to get to know a partner, find out her kinks and such, then use them to create a life that was satisfactory to both of us.  I am not the looking for someone who couldn't express what she wanted at proper times, nor am I looking for someone who would only want to mindlessly please a man.  Over time, I'd like a woman who was willing to explore and expand her repertoire of kinks.  My kinks are wide and varied and change based upon scenarios, I prefer good communication instead of long questionnaires.  Depending on the likes of my partner, I have varied from very mild to extreme - always respecting her boundaries while finding what I seek. 

I hope that my forwardness in this profile doesn't prevent anyone interested from contacting me, I just want to be honest and I hope you can appreciate that.

Any other questions just ask. Thanks for reading. :) 

PS. I am a real person and would appreciate if you were too. I understand the need to be careful in this world, but I need someone who can prove that they are real in a relatively short span of time.