So why dont I have a woman to serve? It seems I live too far away from real women. Surely there is a real woman in the Ozarks, or near to the Ozarks, who loves to have control of a male !!! Surprise me.

A Dominant Woman has the world by the tail if she wants it---if she can stand it! -)


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I believe that the most important dynamic to a Dommesub relationship is control. She must crave having it, and he must want Her to have it.

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The word that fits best to describe me is QUEER.

This does not mean I am gay, but it DOES mean I am not a regular male with regular, usual sexual desires. I dont need the sex act. In fact, I dont even think about it, much less yearn for it. Well, lets be honest. I am not a good fuck, and I never have been. LOL


QUEER is a word commonly used, these days, to express a person having a gender identity that is different from the birth or biological gender. This confusion of meaning is unfortunate. I am a male cisgender. I am not transgender, nor gender confused.


One more thing. PIV (penis in vagina) sex (for me) just messes with my submissive head space. So that is a big reason why I can completely do without that. I know that no PIV sex is a non-starter for many women with a strong libido. But it is how I am. I am really submissive. Of course, any woman who seeks to own me clearly has the right to have me as a submissive and can seek at any time any other lover of her choosing.


My sexual orientation is submissive. I am a subbie. My nature is to be a pleaser, and my counterpart is a Woman who can accept a subbie for a mate. She does not have to be a shrew or a sadist or a bitch. She does not even have to be dominant in nature, although having some dominant tendencies is very nice. - Regardless, she must be willing to accept the love of a subbie.

If you are inexperienced as a Domme, or Domme-curious, you may feel free to contact me.



There really are very, very nice and intelligent ladies who would love to have a sub or slave for a companion. It is too bad that there are immature dorks and HNGs who pester and annoy these women. And for those males who have no real attraction to Dommes, except for curiosity, these Domme ladies are very real people, and yes a woman can be sane, smart, delightful and dominant and sadistic too! But do not despair Ye Dominant Women, there are real guys too!



Have you noticed that there are lots of sub males who want a relationship in which the woman does notwill not let him have intercourse with her? These type of subs are by no means rare, but at least some are very, very real! Oftentimes it is the classic cuckold fantasy(wife has sex with other men, but refuses her husband) but not always.




Another common orientation TVs who want to be treated as a woman as much as possible---not as a sexual partner but as a maid or child or such. (BTW, tvsissy-maid is NOT my orientation.)



Meanwhile, women who are into BDSM are nearly all women who love sex in most all variations, and who cannot fathom the idea of a relationship with a guy who wants to be chaste with her!



The irony is that there are way too many males who want no vanilla sex in a relationship, compared to only a few women who could accept a relationship with a guy who is not, at least on occasion, a good fuck.



There are VERY FEW women who are into bisexual guys. Most submissive guys have somebi fantasies, although overwhelmingly straight. A woman who is willing to taunt, tease or force bi-sex with a sub can have fun with a partner. She can also have rewardingsessionswith many men who have unmet feelings in that direction.



WHY SHOULD A WOMAN BE A DOMINATRIX?

The answer is why not? Let us list the reasons for Woman

* Never have to put up with male demands for sex

* Be treated likeroyalty instead of like a man-pleasing servant

* Have pleasure YOUR way

* The clit is the organ of pleasure, not the penis

* His penis is Yours to do (or NOT DO) with as You please

* Dress any way You like

* He will never cheat on You

* You can fool around with others any time you want to

* You can make him eat out of Your hand, or out of Your lap

* He will be your butler servant, or You can fire him anytime!

* You dont have to wield whips, canes or paddles---but you may!

* He does not have to be a wimp, sissy or cross-dresser

* You will be treated like a Goddess!



I just saw a site where a Domme was crowing about fun that she was having with an exfoliating glove. That does sound wicked!





NO SEX-PECTATIONS. I need to serve and please.I am single, unattached, andlooking for a good friendship, and preferably more. ). I am not a pain freak, not into whips, paddling, king orsuch. I am not wanting to find mommy, and I am not into being a cross-dresser. I just want to be pleasing and dutiful. I amvery passive whenit comes to aLady.i prefer a woman near myage. i am a naturalwoman pleaser. It is my nature. i guess i just dont fit the grid OST Dommes or Mistressesseeking male submission.I am however, very open-minded and willing to accept a Woman as she is. Well, to be frank,i cant aspire to admire a woman who is 100 lbs overweight.i am really not into getting beaten,roped and tied, etc.---butthere exists acuriosity about a sadistic woman......I used to love dickteasing...and probably still do...so if you think dickteasing is cool, then... Regardless of the erotic component, how much time can be spent with sexual activities? A good relationship means that we enjoy spendingtimewitheach other---being togetherdoing lots of things. If you are wanting a lover,and youwant full freedom to cuckold him, or you want the freedom to be poly, thenIam your kind of guy.ialsobelieve I wouldbe very compatible with awoman who isasexual,platonic, or primarily lesbian.To do a Womans bidding is toromance Her.If you like to tease, frustrate and deny, then good for you!iWANT tolovea woman who refuses intercourse with me. Here is a quote from a woman I know. This sums up a great attitude from a real Top

cocks.... when I have control I want to work it over and that doesnt mean kindly. I want to play rough with it.Worshipping a Domme by pleasing her is the ultimate goal.

i would certainly love to be married. By nature I amloyal, honest and faithful. But, iam quite amenable to a woman whowants or needs otherlovers.Why wouldnt a submissive wantaDommetoenjoy what She wants?i am not disabled, or handicapped with drug or alcohol, sports, gambling or other addictive problems.i do not smoke, but dont mind if you do.i am not looking for someone to support me, asi have nice income.i am highly educated and pretty damn bright. i enjoy intelligence, and a diversity of activities.i am not religious.Politicallyi lean to the liberal wing. ihave a sense of humor! i wish all of you wonderful Dommes to find that wonderful submissive lover---who is definitely out there just for you.