Bondage is freedom, the freedom to let it all go, to experience one's own inner joy rather than encumber oneself with the troubles of the outside world, of everyday life; to shirk the banal and embrace the excitement of new sensations. A gag is liberating, allowing you to give vent to your deepest emotions, to speak the language only the select few comprehend ... to avoid upsetting the neighbors.

Despite my screen name which might seem a bit pretentious, I really don't identify as a Dom or a Master strictly speaking. I'm a top but I'm essentially a fetishist, which means I enjoy playing with things like rope, chains, cuffs, collars, irons, and various other implements of restraint. I enjoy mummification and I've long had an attraction for things like silk (silk scarf bondage, anyone?), nylon, and latex. I like sensory play and sensory deprivation. I'm also into a bit of e-stim and some light breathplay with those who are so inclined. In short, I like tying people up and having my way with them - within reason and within negotiated boundaries obviously.

I love working with rope and though I consider myself pretty proficient with it I'm always on the lookout for an enthusiastic practice dummy, if you'll pardon the expression, to further enhance my skills. Understand though that for me it's not about sex or a relationship, or anything beyond friendship and an occasional play partner. Anyone who comes along expecting more than that is going to be disappointed. If something more eventually develops from an association, so be it. But it's not what I'm setting out to find.

Mainly I'm looking for someone who shares my interests and wants to explore them or simply take advantage of an opportunity to play. Pay no attention to the dour old fart in the picture. Look instead to what he offers for the willing and adventurous.

Cheers!

Barry