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I have very little experience in the lifestyle but am very knowledgeable about it and what I w
Female Submissive, 45,  Palmdale, California











 Submissive Female



 5' 4"





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

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I have very little experience in the lifestyle but am very knowledgeable about it and what I want. I am looking for a partner who will be patient and caring and will take their time with me. If interested message me.

Have no interest in online or entertaining anyone.

I am in an open marriage....he's vanilla.† If that's an issue for anyone...not a problem...poly isn't for everyone.† Good luck in your search.

I am only looking for a relationship....not friends with benefits, not play partners....a relationship. Iím a polyamorous person and have no problems having multiple relationships at any given time. In fact I doubt Iíll ever just have one relationship again. If this is an issue for you then we are not compatible and you should not contact me.

I am a large bbw....if thatís an issue then pass me by.

I haven't had sex in a years and as a result my sex drive has become I need someone patient and willing to slowly work my sex drive back to high. This does not mean Iím looking for pointers or advice. Iím well aware of what will bring my sex drive back. I need to be emotionally and mentally connected and have a partner who understands how I work....when I find someone like that my sex drive will return. If anyone who contacts me isnít willing to invest the time and effort towards that goal then please ain from messaging me. Iím only interested in those who are willing and interested in what Iíve stated above.

I will not chat with you on Skype or kik or any other chat app. If you're too afraid to share your # for texting and eventually phone calls when we get to those points then we are not a match. No exceptions.

Journal Entries:
3/7/2018 12:36:15 AM
If youíre not really interested in getting to know me and putting in the time and effort to develop trust...then do NOT bother me. Iím sick and tired of these so called dominants spouting how theyíre so different only to disappear. Itís ridiculous and a time waster. Do not waste my time.

2/10/2018 12:48:12 AM
Happy Valentines Day everyone!!

1/1/2017 10:02:50 PM
Do not send me friend requests unless we've spoken and have become friends. If you do so without speaking to me first you will be rejected and ignored.

6/29/2016 11:36:45 PM
Happy 44th birthday to me 😊

9/27/2015 5:55:01 PM
If you are looking for masturbation fodder, to cyber, to sext, to just talk about fantasies, or just looking to pass the time, or looking for an online relationship or submission...please pass me by.  I am seeking a real connection with a real person who wants to know me.

Thank you

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