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Hello. Address me as Ma'am. Read my profile thoroughly including my demographics and what role
Female Dominant, 51,  Phoenix, Arizona











Last Online:


 Dominant Female



 5' 7"

 255 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

Hello. Address me as Ma'am. Read my profile thoroughly including my demographics and what role I am seeking. In addition to the preprinted, I  seek a straight male submissive skilled in the areas of service and intelligent conversation. Let me be 100% clear, *I* wear the stockings in this relationship. My dynamic is FLAER. a/p>


Please know that I am selective with whom I play. I am interested in interrogation scenes, wax play, and using my submissive in very physical ways.


About you: Mindful of your appearance in every aspect. Straight. Honest about your experience, limits, and adventurousness. Drug free. No smoking of any kind. Substance free.


I'd like to know your strengths. Send me a message sharing that information.

Protection is a must. Non latex only. If you are unable to wear it and sustain it, we can be platonic friends. Always has a fresh supply on hand for those impromptu moments.

Bonus points for military and cowboys. No sissies.


I look forward to hearing from you.

Also on Fetlife and alt


Respond if you know the answer. What do you do with a dead chemist?


Married, separated, in service to another? Move on. I am not investing any of my time in relationships that are going nowhere. I do wish you the very best of luck in your journey.

Looks like I need to state this clearly; absolutely no online, penpals, or photo exchange. Real time only. UPDATE: I have laerned and accepted that my level of aggressiveness, firm direction, and the speed with which I move that is an issue for some potential subs. Fair warning boys, I am not for the faint of heart.

Journal Entries:
7/18/2017 5:52:40 PM
I must be on the catch & release plan. After some consideration, that one is returned.

6/7/2017 4:46:10 PM
New submissive under consideration.

4/18/2017 9:42:00 PM
I really should have seen that writing that last entry on April Fool's Day was going to come back to bite me in the butt!

3/28/2017 5:10:00 AM
Life is good. My sub is sweet. Vulnerability is growth.

3/3/2017 11:34:56 AM
Muncie, Indiana. Any sweet subs out there ready and willing to make this Domme feel welcome in your home town?

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