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There is a lovely contrast in the elegance of a bdsm relationship. A master who very politely (and with sincere concern) inquires to his submissive if her cuffs are comfortable as he prepares his flogger - which they both know he will indeed use with deft precision and skill. Her discomfort and pain will be focused only on where he decides it should be targeted. If and when she should be pleasured, that also would be by the master's choice. Her desires are often so strong she literally needs to be bound so he can focus them for her, and this in paradox is a freedom she can't experience any other way. There is almost a poetry in the relationship. She belongs to a master in body and soul and while he may take great pleasure in creating new ways to torture her, he would never allow her to be hurt. People who know this, know what this means.
Mzrainbow
 
 Age: 23
 Ontario, Canada