Collarspace

I think at the point the label is not as important as the attitude and desire and skills. Kinkster would probably cover whatI am. But probably with the sensual caveat added, since i am not a sadist nor i seek one. Yet there is something to be said to certain level of intensity and strong sensations.
We all seek something, but I am open minded to the possibilities or receiving unexpected surprises,so expectations are shattered that way. Besides, my tastes and preferences can be discussed in person if one if fortunate to get there and talk about it.
Yet the connection is what is sought. The bond as it were. Pun totally intended and implied.It is Not that hard to understand we all want someone, but the idealperson is in some people are mind set in stone. Alas. I strive not to be as rigid and enjoy people on an individual basis. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. And i chose to be positive.
My experience and conviction in my preferred rolemakes me quite capable,yet I feel I close myself to possibilities by choosing only one flavor in life. I dont think it is all black or white but assorted grays, some very pale and others very dark. Make of that what you will. I like to drive the car, a lot and often, but it is sometimes nice to let someone else do the driving. Why? To take a break, or because i want it. Power of choice.
I get to see new sights and experience thing i could not otherwise, by exposing myself to them and the point of view of my partner in crime. In either role, the point for me is her pleasure, and from there mine comes forth from that, directly and indirectly.
I am honest and direct, yetI am complex, but not complicated.
I know whatI like but remain open and flexible to my opposing force.At the core I am I am a sensualist and kinkster way more than sadist and very less a masochist. A devious twisted one at that. One that believes BDSM is a of expression and at times even art. I yam what I yam. Obviously, the blue cheese of the dating world. Not for everyone. But goes well paired and even complement the right counterbalance.
Always aneducated pervert, flirt seducer and elegant menace. Quiet waters that runs deep.
Best luck to us all.