Collarspace

I really never update my profile, but I am trying it once again. I have livedworked in Tucson, Phoenix, and San Francisco over the last decade and a half. Currently, I straddle living in both Phoenix and Tucson because of the job market. I have been into BDSM as a dom since being introduced to it in college. I infrequently attended fetish events in the Phoenix area and used to be in the goth club scene in Tucson for many years before I decided to pursue other endeavors (I actually love hiking, biking, and the outdoors). I balance the bdsm side of my life with the traditional public side even though I dont hide one or the other. I am not an extreme sadist or micromanager type in either life though.

I have a college education and support myself with a steady job, but I dont necessarily believe those two things are a requirement for anyone I happen to like. However, in any type of partnersub I expect a level of intelligence and aptitude to where I can hold a conversation beyond fickle and cliche subjects because sex is just one element of a relationship. A personality holds my attention first and foremost and then the details come afterwards. I do have a passion for seeking out and learning things to where I have dabbled in most things. A complete reflection of my own personality get boring rather fast which is why I like a woman who can also introduce her own elements to a relationship.

That being said, I dont have many requirements in a submissive partner. I prefer more thinner women but am open to most all shapes and size except the extreme bbw variety (curvy is not bbw, by the way). I am getting back into exercising multiple times a week and watch what I eat to keep myself relatively healthy. My er partners have mostly been musicians, dancers (the ballroom variety), and those with an art background. I personally worked in the theatre on the tech side for years. Most physical features are unimportant, and I prefer to be open to many possibilities.

One last thing, I dont have a picture posted due to it attracting more male attention than females. I have plenty of pictures of myself, but only distribute them to interested female parties. If it progresses from there, I am always open to meeting somewhere in the city or exchanging emails for a time.