Oxford-based sadist with a penchant for cerebral and emotional sadism seeking a giggly girly toy to treat and traumatise, and love whole-heartedly. To travel around the country with. To shape and teach and sculpt into the culmination of our ideals. Key words for those who might be seeking something more intimate and personal are meeples, D&D, UrbEx, VanLife.

I'm a full-time van-lifer, and jaded kinkster. Atypical yet generic, I seek now something simple. Someone to listen to the rain with. To play boardgames with. To take traveling into suburban wilderness. To embrace, embarrass and arouse.

I'm into TPE. Predicament bondage. Darker play and thoughts. I have a love of bare-handed punishment and watching pretty young things struggle and grow frustrated as they edge. Less usual aspects that I find enticing include leotards, tutus, and loving relationships. Depraved daddy's girls, cum-craving cockteases and body-hugging bunnysuits arouse my attention and my penis. My sex drive in and of myself tends to be quite low within the mundane, but when inspired by those around me it rises easily, entendre intended. Typically a cerebal degradation or coercive aspect is required. I particularly seek someone to dress and display. Spanking is my special preference. As is edging, bondage with a psychological, sadistic twist and more cognitive affairs. 

Having defined rules and requirements to be followed should appeal - holding my hand whilst we're out, eating and exercising properly, being dressed in/appropriately as dictated. Compliance earns affection and pleasure. Disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more painful of pleasing. 

Whilst a lot of what I say steps into DDlg, I'm seeking a middle more than a little. My interests there are for the aesthetic and psycho-sexual side. Although tasks and pastimes typically suited for younger minds will usually be given as part of the play. 

All that said, in short I love to corrupt and force changes through choice. To make people choose submission for a selfish reason. Your being edged and made to put on a show to climax as an example, or perhaps a dildo just far enough out of reach you can only tease yourself leading to your begging to be spanked or facefucked so you're pushed back that extra inch. More generic humiliation is also enjoyed, but this kind of self induced degradation is key to most of my arousals. Typically anything showing innocence tainted. Predicament bondage as a good example. 

Relationship wise, should that be sought, I'm a flat affect, but I yearn for someone to love. Inherently cynical yet optimistic, romance is something I crave, although how I show it may be aberrant. Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. I'm an incongruent thinker and writer, and enjoy the prospect of nights spent in book club / salon style discussions. As well as time spent hiking, hunting for abandoned and spooky places, and watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals. 

I am looking for nothing, hoping for everything.

Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it.

Feel free to message for a chat. Especially if you've an interest in psychology and philosophy and how they apply to sensuality and arousal.

Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine.