Collarspace

Had to make a new nick due to my location change as my old nick accede has yet to be approved after five months of waiting. Also, am heeding on here with my old I have recently relocated to Rhode Island this past October. It is where I grew up. After being in San Diego for 19 years due to serving in the US Navy, I had decided to move back home to be closer to family in addition to receiving a great job offer, which I accepted.

I am not into games or wasting time. I will not waste yours and therefore expect you to not waste mine either. I am not attracted to younger men. Anyone under forty is too young. It is a personal preference. I prefer older men but not looking to bury someone after a few years together either. I apologize if it sounds a bit harsh but it is the truth. If you are seeking a doormat I am definitely not the woman for you. I am not looking for anyone to financially support me and in turn not looking to financially support a grown man. If you do not possess control in your own life then you do not have a chance in hell in controlling me.

I am seeking someone whom will put forth as much effort into building a deeply committed relationship and bond that I will in turn put forth.

This is who we are not, what we do. It is not a choice but an absolute state of being. If you do not understand that concept then we are not compatible. Trust takes time and it is not given instantly or within the first few messages, nor the first time we meet in person. I am seeking reality not fantasy. I have no need to tread upon a path that will only lead to a dead end.

Im on this cursed site to find my future Owner only not countless pen pals whom wish to endlessly chat away. My time is valuable, as is yours.

I am seeking TPE with a balance between both worlds as we exist within both. Someone sane with a sense of humor. A man secure in himself and in life. I am a masochist but I am in no way a pain slut. I enjoy light to moderate pain but do not love or need it.

I have no problem in sharing a pic privately if I am interested or feel we are compatible and can meet in person.

I am highly selective as I know who I am and whom I am searching for. I have no need to settle for anything less than what I am seeking. To settle for less is to receive less. Sub with slave tendencies I may be, but fool I am not.

There is no worse turn off for me than someone writing a message riddled with teenage text speak such as how r u or B4 and the like. Exhibiting laziness in not properly writing a sentence is highly undesirable.

I wish everyone the very best on their search and may you find what and whom you are seeking.

Alas, please do possess a modicum of couth.

I realize CS does not place proper grammar and punctuation as a priority. For some god awful reason CS has decided to remove the ability of writing a grammatically correct profile. If my profile has been affected due to the deplorable decision on the part of CS, I in advance apologize.

Coning