Updated
Are you really desiring to be under my control?
I do not respond if a sub is not interested enough to read my profile.Take it and treasure it like the gift it is. Free info about someone your interested in!
A good sub learns as much as they can on how to please their Dominant. What makes them happy, please,d upset, annoyed,excited, aroused and uses this knowledge to please their Domme. Make their life easier.I know that for many subs they have the idea their Domme is to serve them and their fantasy is sometimes even met by a Domme that doesn't mind a sub topping from the bottom or they are a pro. I am neither and while I do enjoy bringing my sub pleasure at times I mainly desire a sub who will be serving me and bringing me pleasure. If that also brings my sub immense pleasure since serving brings them pleasure then I have a perfect fit.
2nd I am not dealing with bc anymore so you must be guaranteed sterile,had a vasectomy or at leaat super into piss play where I piss in your mouth and you want to drink up every drop. A small possibility I would also consider is a very good looking sub that does not meet these specifications to be used as eye candy and some non penetrative play.
I am a paradox. I can be a sweetheart. Thoughtful. Logical. Intellectual. Curious.Good humoured. Playful.
A seductress. A limit pusher. A tease. Passionate. Sassy. Sensitive.
I desire to be the best I can and try hard to do so and yet am also human.
I am pretty mature for my age and yet I can be playful and a tease. I am not skinny.I have curvy hips thick thighs and a pretty big ass. I'm in pretty good shape with good endurance and working to get in better shape. I love the outdoors and beautiful landscapes. I enjoy traveling although its not as much as I'd like due to lack of funds to do so and a busy life.
I desire a fit man that has good values and morals. If you have a desire to always try to improve youself and not only appreciate insight,guidance and direction in ways you can improve but desire it at least from your woman and will treat your woman like a queen then you have my attention.
I want a relationship where we can talk easily and also where I am always honoured and cherished and ultimately obeyed as well as being able to have kinky fun. A very strong desire to please his partner in every way not just physically and a ability to deeply care about their partner is imperative. At this time I am not looking for lifelong but I want this type of relationship either way.
I know many on here are just looking for someone to serve their fetishes or to treat them like crap. I do not want a sub that wants that.
I want someone willing to listen to guidance and follow it. To respect me. To care for me. Whether they get all the kink play that evening or not. Its not the kink stuff that make a d s anyway its the mindset;its the power dynamic. Heck I could order you to tie me up and spank me and who would be the Domme? Me! The one giving orders.. On that note here is the rest of my profile with things added and taken out as necessary regarding the kinkier details.
PLEASE READ EVERYTHING IF YOU ARE INTERESTED TO SAVE US BOTH TIME! A good submissive for me is one who listens well, can follow directions and clarify any time anythimg is unclear, and goes the extra mile so pay attention and follow these directions if you want to make a good first impression:
When you respond you will tell me how you may be what I am looking for and any ways you may not be. If you truly are not interested then please dont message me as I am busy and want to talk to those only who truly are intrigued. I am not interested in just chatting at this time as I will only be checking periodically. I really want a sub who truly desires to serve and his biggest pleasure is MY pleasure. Your kinks will be listened to and considered but mine will be paramount.
First to make it clear I am looking for a male sub between the ages of 30-47)although females are welcome too) no transgender please. No offense I just want cisgender males only.
I prefer my men looking masculine.
* 1. I am NOT into sissification, crossdressing, forced feminization nor strapon play at all.Also not into forced bi at all.I want all the attention and prefer masculine men anyway.I do not wear heels so if that's your big fetish then sorry. I prefer shoes that are comfortable. . I dont mind a bit of foot worship and kissing my feet is kinda nice or a foot massage and sucking my toes while I order you to fuck me can be hot but it's not a big kink of mine so if you have a foot fetish I will not be a good fit. About 10-20 min of foot worship is good for me. I am not looking for anyone where its all about their fetishes anyway I want it to be about worshipping and serving and pleasing me. No offense its just how I like it and expect it.
*2. No online only and no live ins. You may be controlled from afar daily or weekly depending on what is decided and our schedules and especially mine as you are to make my life easier right?and we would see each other ideally every month or 2 for a day or 2 for several hrs or possibly longer depending on our schedules and my desires.
3. If you have a thick cock(I dont mean average or long I mean THICK) or are very muscular you have peaked my interest as I love both. Please mention if messaging me but only if its true.
3. I do not have skype, kik etc and do not want them and will only communicate by phone if we decide to move off this site if moving ahead or possibly email). I will not meet til I have seen clear pics of you and talked on the phone with you. I am real so you need to be too. I also prefer pics taken just for me preferably a upper body pic. Keep your pants on for now!
4. I love sensual domination, tease and denial bring out the Seductress in me and bring lots of edging for you. I enjoy using restraints, blindfolds and hoods,gags, clamps, and all kinds of impact play for those who are into that. I am not a complete sadist so if all you want is pain then I will become bored as I enjoy that but also lots of other play too and driving you mad with desire is definately a favorite! I also enjoy breath play, choking, erotic hypnosis, pissing in a subs mouth if they are into watersoorts has become a really big kink. I also love rough play, my nails down your back, love love love oral so you must too as I expect you to please me a lot. If you enjoy tasting my cum even better. If your into it I also enjoy some verbal humiliation and o b j e c t i f i c a t i o n as well. I love receiving oral and love sex and can orgasm more times than you can count(which maybe as many times as I edge you)
5. I am fine if you live far away as long as you can easily afford to visit me at least every couple months and are capable of submitting from afar. A sub must also be able and willing to help out as any partner would with expenses and if they like to spoil in that respect even better.
7. Extremely important is being patient, honest, trustworthy, respectful, and eager to serve and please me and will view it as a honor not a burden. Respect my time and I will respect yours.
A picture showing your body in your first message or at least within first couple messages is not only appreciated but helps show your real and sincere.
I absolutely adore domination and the feeling it gives me. It is so incredibly arousing and also fulfills a need I have just as submitting fulfills my sub. I am caring, honest, and trustworthy yet firm and expect complete obedience. I am not into brats nor trying to be punished.
Ideally you would thrive under this kind if environment and even crave it.
