I am single, sophisticated, and generally thought of as good company, in many social settings.

I have been in the lifestyle for thirty years, and am experienced, but not jaded.

I like women, for their company. I am a gentleman, and see no conflict in a Ds relationship, and treating that lady as a gentleman would treat any lady. There is great dignity in submission.

My Ideal Person Its not that you want to be into the lifestyle, it simply is that you are, and always have been. You probably did not realise it, but now that you look back all the signs were always there. Vanilla just does not work for you, whether sub or DOmme.

You are independent thinking in many ways. Your friends, family, and work associates all see the accomplished social you. You enjoy being an egalitarian, although despite that, when push comes to shove, you may have to admit to being a snob. Well you do have standards.