Collarspace

I am a single father with shared custody looking for a sub or slave to start a new long term relationship with. I am not looking for a doormat, I value a personality and enjoy having conversations, not just constantly hearing yes sir all the time. I am also looking for someone that is looking to grow as a person as well as grow in their submission as I will encourage both. Someone that understands the value of this as it compliments and enhances regular everyday life.

As a former collegiate athlete I have done much in my life. Though all of it changed several years ago with the addition of my first and only child. Much has changed in the few short years since then, but I think that overall it has been for the better. I have over 20 years experience, am a sadist, but not of the extreme sort, enjoy rough play, restraints, bondage, the use of toys for play, training, and discipline when necessary, and more of course. Over the years, based on my sub or slaves desires and needs I have gained experience in many different kinks though I am sure that there are probably still more that I have yet to learn.

Who I hope to find will be looking to learn and grow as I said, both as a person and in their submission. I believe that we are always learning no matter how much we already know. So even if you are already experienced as a sub or a slave, or if you are new and just beginning, as long as you are dedicated to improving and growing, then I am willing to talk to you. Someone that is in shape, or close to being in shape as we have a fairly active life, and you will be expected to keep in shape. 35 or younger, though that I may be flexible on. As for education, at least high school diploma, if more great, if you want to learn more, then we can discuss that as well as I am getting ready to go back to school for a Masters degree myself. Obviously you must be good with children as I have a child who is here half the time, and I also have 5 nieces and nephews.

I think that is a fair starting point, may add more later if necessary. If this catches your attention then I look forward to speaking with you!