Seeking friends and fun - and possibly a long-term relationship. Exploring dominance within sane limits and consensual activity.

So, heres my take on safe words. Theyre fine for people who are doing some sort of abduction or other role play.

But you and I arent going there, at least not anytime soon. So if you say STOP or DONT or NO, those words mean stop, dont and no.

When I tell you to do something, you can say no and Ill adapt. When I begin some physical act, you can say stop and I will. You can ask me to do something and I may, or may not.

But we also might not really even have to rely on that stuff too much - if we communicate in advance what we like, dont like, and what boundaries we have.

Safe, sane, and consensual.